Mike, its not the landing. It is what Waswahili call barafu ya roho. A person who makes you feel special. Bi Mswafari tries to teach Kenyan women these things but they do not get it and the few who get it are the one ones who are not married. Men have very basic weaknesses and those women who know how to address them can have anything they want.

Very true. It's not about the landing. Landing is the pitch, it's physical and you cannot sustain any relationship on physical. You sustain through emotional. For us men, we are fools, sadly the woman who can keep us emotionally interested is the one who has no emotional attachment to us. Think about it.

I'm not that loaded. I'm young, single and childless, but lady luck has smiled on me in business and investing so far. Also no one in my family needs financial assistance. That leaves me with some money for playing around with and I've been experimenting with various romantic arrangements since the standard marriage doesn't seem to work that well in my view. I thought maybe a lady on retainer would not stress me at all, leaving me in a good mental state to focus on more important things. How wrong was I? Mwanamke ni stress regardless. Now I'm experimenting with open relationship with two working class women, no lies of side dish and main dish. So far so good.



I was thinking more like Nigerian oil magnates. How about you degullibilise us then?

Marriage as an institution is a good idea-for those who like living in institutions!

My friend, a woman who tells you all the artificial nice things you want to hear is pulling an act which you have to pay every cent's worth. When you are involved with a mpango, the only liar in the relationship is yourself. Unajidanganya tu. But make sure she doesn't get knocked up sababu this is when you'll know her true colours... Luckily, I know, not from experience.