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Taurrus wrote:What is it with Kasarani police station and husband killers? This is one Police station that is crime infested going by the word in the street.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/22/2009 Posts: 2,449 Location: Africa
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Fullykenyan wrote:Prime wrote:faa wrote:Lolest! wrote:Fullykenyan wrote:If you can marry a foreign woman please do, what i have seen friends going through with their kenyan wives abroad, has made me think that our survival depends maybe on one having a foreign woman. Our women can be mean, real mean Tell us more. not necessarily true, but there is an element of truth in it, One way or another, you can marry a woman and later she changes..... What do you do? Can you stay with a nagging wife really? No! you just divorce her.Simple Donald trump has divorced several times and look where he is now. So there is no particular correct way of doing things..you can marry that foreign woman and sleep in the toilet, ask one of Moi sons.. the important thing, is to make lots of money and create lots of wealth, such that even if later in future your wife brings problems, you can just divorce her, give her a monthly maintenance fee and take care of kids well.That's the most important thing. Extremely true. "My friend" is in the thick of things. Started out well, has two kids, Relatively stable job. Works upcountry and the wife in nairobi. The wife earns relatively ok, but will never touch her money. Even the kid falling sick hataki kutumia hata mia mbili!!!! Anaenda chemist anatext till number!!! The wife cannot even buy milk or sugar at the middle of the week. Ikiisha wanakaa bila til the hubby comes over the weekend. Sad life. Oh... and "my friends" wife is a masters holder and "my friend" is a diploma holder. But she wont touch any other jobs. Her job ni complaining and always moody. I feel for this guy. He suffers but his love for his kids keeps him in there I dont understand our women, i dont understand our society. Responsibilities are to be shared 50/50. My wife and i, we put our money in the same basket.My wife does not ask me for cash coz she has her own visa and credit card. When i didnt work my wife provided.we need to change this idea of one partner being the main persob in the family. Man and woman are equal on all spheres That would be a tricky arrangement for many. How do you deal with expenditure that is not beneficial to both e.g. the man using the money on alcohol and mipangos or the wife overspending on clothes
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/7/2012 Posts: 11,937
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The man must take care of the bulk of the responsibilities, naturally  In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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Rank: Member Joined: 8/25/2015 Posts: 839 Location: Kite
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Iganamagana wrote:Taurrus wrote:What is it with Kasarani police station and husband killers? This is one Police station that is crime infested going by the word in the street. Unless the service comes with a modern blue print of managing these stations,iko shida!
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Rank: Member Joined: 7/27/2014 Posts: 560 Location: Eastlando
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Shak wrote:Fullykenyan wrote:Prime wrote:faa wrote:Lolest! wrote:Fullykenyan wrote:If you can marry a foreign woman please do, what i have seen friends going through with their kenyan wives abroad, has made me think that our survival depends maybe on one having a foreign woman. Our women can be mean, real mean Tell us more. not necessarily true, but there is an element of truth in it, One way or another, you can marry a woman and later she changes..... What do you do? Can you stay with a nagging wife really? No! you just divorce her.Simple Donald trump has divorced several times and look where he is now. So there is no particular correct way of doing things..you can marry that foreign woman and sleep in the toilet, ask one of Moi sons.. the important thing, is to make lots of money and create lots of wealth, such that even if later in future your wife brings problems, you can just divorce her, give her a monthly maintenance fee and take care of kids well.That's the most important thing. Extremely true. "My friend" is in the thick of things. Started out well, has two kids, Relatively stable job. Works upcountry and the wife in nairobi. The wife earns relatively ok, but will never touch her money. Even the kid falling sick hataki kutumia hata mia mbili!!!! Anaenda chemist anatext till number!!! The wife cannot even buy milk or sugar at the middle of the week. Ikiisha wanakaa bila til the hubby comes over the weekend. Sad life. Oh... and "my friends" wife is a masters holder and "my friend" is a diploma holder. But she wont touch any other jobs. Her job ni complaining and always moody. I feel for this guy. He suffers but his love for his kids keeps him in there I dont understand our women, i dont understand our society. Responsibilities are to be shared 50/50. My wife and i, we put our money in the same basket.My wife does not ask me for cash coz she has her own visa and credit card. When i didnt work my wife provided.we need to change this idea of one partner being the main persob in the family. Man and woman are equal on all spheres That would be a tricky arrangement for many. How do you deal with expenditure that is not beneficial to both e.g. the man using the money on alcohol and mipangos or the wife overspending on clothes Well, that one, i cant answer, since i dont take alcohol, however, when it comes to clothes and all other expenditures,we have an Excel table to track our expenses. This helps us to minimise on our expenses. Another thing is that, we buy what we need not what we want.
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Rank: Member Joined: 7/27/2014 Posts: 560 Location: Eastlando
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Angelica _ann wrote:The man must take care of the bulk of the responsibilities, naturally Then dont complain if he mistreats you. Now i understand, why a relative told me once, that he never allows his wife to buy food at home. He told me in a case, where the wife buys food, expect rationing at home.That is not a relationship, that is a business arrangement. If i love someone, i share everything with her, and i expect the same from her
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/7/2007 Posts: 11,935 Location: Nairobi
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Fullykenyan wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:The man must take care of the bulk of the responsibilities, naturally Then dont complain if he mistreats you. Now i understand, why a relative told me once, that he never allows his wife to buy food at home. He told me in a case, where the wife buys food, expect rationing at home.That is not a relationship, that is a business arrangement. If i love someone, i share everything with her, and i expect the same from her She pays the house girl and for her hair. Everything else, including maintaining her car is on me. The reason i don't pay for her hair is that one day, i sat to wait for her and i swore never again. It was a Friday afternoon. I think we left the salon on Monday morning Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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Njung'e wrote:Fullykenyan wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:The man must take care of the bulk of the responsibilities, naturally Then dont complain if he mistreats you. Now i understand, why a relative told me once, that he never allows his wife to buy food at home. He told me in a case, where the wife buys food, expect rationing at home.That is not a relationship, that is a business arrangement. If i love someone, i share everything with her, and i expect the same from her She pays the house girl and for her hair. Everything else, including maintaining her car is on me. The reason i don't pay for her hair is that one day, i sat to wait for her and i swore never again. It was a Friday afternoon. I think we left the salon on Monday morning Hahaha @guka... that is hilarious... that must have been a long time ago that's why you can't even remember. Hey @Fullykenyan, so both of you withdraw the money and put it on the table, or how do you allocate on the excel sheet? 
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/7/2012 Posts: 11,937
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AlphDoti wrote:Njung'e wrote:Fullykenyan wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:The man must take care of the bulk of the responsibilities, naturally Then dont complain if he mistreats you. Now i understand, why a relative told me once, that he never allows his wife to buy food at home. He told me in a case, where the wife buys food, expect rationing at home.That is not a relationship, that is a business arrangement. If i love someone, i share everything with her, and i expect the same from her She pays the house girl and for her hair. Everything else, including maintaining her car is on me. The reason i don't pay for her hair is that one day, i sat to wait for her and i swore never again. It was a Friday afternoon. I think we left the salon on Monday morning Hahaha @guka... that is hilarious... that must have been a long time ago that's why you can't even remember. Hey @Fullykenyan, so both of you withdraw the money and put it on the table, or how do you allocate on the excel sheet? @Alpha & Guka see what these mboys are doing to their spouses!!!!! Excel worksheet yawa, you are almost installing accounting package, kwani ni biachara In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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Rank: Member Joined: 7/27/2014 Posts: 560 Location: Eastlando
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AlphDoti wrote:Njung'e wrote:Fullykenyan wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:The man must take care of the bulk of the responsibilities, naturally Then dont complain if he mistreats you. Now i understand, why a relative told me once, that he never allows his wife to buy food at home. He told me in a case, where the wife buys food, expect rationing at home.That is not a relationship, that is a business arrangement. If i love someone, i share everything with her, and i expect the same from her She pays the house girl and for her hair. Everything else, including maintaining her car is on me. The reason i don't pay for her hair is that one day, i sat to wait for her and i swore never again. It was a Friday afternoon. I think we left the salon on Monday morning Hahaha @guka... that is hilarious... that must have been a long time ago that's why you can't even remember. Hey @Fullykenyan, so both of you withdraw the money and put it on the table, or how do you allocate on the excel sheet? @Alpha Doti, After every Shopping, every Buy,We enter the proceedings kwa Excel. At the end of the month, we also get a bank Statement to show how much was withdrawn for non-Household expenses eg. when i decide to go out with my boys to a Restaurant or when she has Ladies time etc
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