Coolbull wrote:Ability to turn away from sex.....as in looking at a woman and thinking otherwise. Having seen that sex is a man's greatest weakness be it with a wife or mipango, I think for a man to 'arrive' is being big enough to say no to sex or not to be influenced by it when making a decision.
Most men turn to mipango when wife refuses with mizigo....An arrived man will choose not to be 'driven' by the third eye and make a point of living without sex.
Jesus, Paul and several faithful Catholic priests have arrived regarding SELF CONTROL especially when it comes to matters sex.
SELF CONTROL=ARRIVED.
This type of arriving is a very very very very bad idea. You may end up in a situation illustrated below:
or even this:

...besides, the presence of a safe alone does not signify that there is money inside...