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gift
#1 Posted : Monday, April 26, 2010 7:06:59 AM
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Hi Wazuans,

I will welcome your views on my cheating husband who is a member of Wazua for your information! I have bursted him cheating on me now for the third time with all the evidence at hand. This is information I gathered myself and not a tip off.

1st time was b4 we got married. The evidence I had was a chics panty in his house. He vowed, its his boy who had come to his house with a Chic and that night he was not in. 2nd and now the third time is when we were already married. I last burst him in Dec 2008.

This guy married me a virgin. For all I know, I have tried to be a very good wife. I could be having my short comings, everyone is not perfect.

From Jamaaz point of view, please advice. Last time he was so apologetic and vowed never ever to play me again. It has happened. So once a thief always a thief. That is his nature, he will just never ever change, that is what I think. We have a 3 yr old daughter and im 4 months pregnant. My Hubby can count the number of times I said no to Love making for the 4 years we have been married. I spice up our marriage. I have attended enuff of Getrude Mungai's session, just to learn how to spice up our sex life. At least I make every effort to make my bedroom matters interesting. This guy is just broody!

Wazuans what are your thoughts?
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#2 Posted : Monday, April 26, 2010 7:22:55 AM
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gift wrote:
1st time was b4 we got married. The evidence I had was a chics panty in his house.


The red light was already on before you married him. I hope he changes his ways now that he has kids and it's no longer about him.
(So what's his user name anywaysmile )

BBI will solve it :)
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brav
#3 Posted : Monday, April 26, 2010 7:39:29 AM
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Wasnt me!
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Much Know
#4 Posted : Monday, April 26, 2010 7:45:27 AM
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Your best options (as per previous wazua/sk discussion) is to prepare chapatis and beef stew, when the chapos are very hot, sit on them, then dunk a piece of beef in "pale pale", when hubby comes home serve him the hearty meal and steam zikimshika, slap him with your underwear across the face......there will be only one name in his head...gift...if this fails...vumilia tu!
Ras Kienyeji Man
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gift
#5 Posted : Monday, April 26, 2010 7:45:58 AM
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By the way, this a very heavy matter! I have bursted my hubby on e-mail and copied the chic telling them I know about their relationship. So far no feeback. May be he is busy explaining himself to the other chic.

Hmm.....could it be Mid life crisis? Im 28years Old now and he is 38 years.

This evening im planning to go home and pack a few clothes and move to my Parents house. Have talked to a few agents to get me a house. Then I move and stay on my own.

This 4 months pregancy, Im seriously thinking about it now! I mean seriously thinking about it!

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centerbolt
#6 Posted : Monday, April 26, 2010 7:51:05 AM
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gift wrote:
Hi Wazuans,


1st time was b4 we got married.



You should have known better than to marry him! Shame on you
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Achiever
#7 Posted : Monday, April 26, 2010 8:01:32 AM
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"This 4 months pregancy, Im seriously thinking about it now! I mean seriously thinking about it!"

What do u mean by this....? i hope u r not considering what am reading......its a crime.
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Fundaah
#8 Posted : Monday, April 26, 2010 8:02:40 AM
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gift wrote:


This 4 months pregancy, Im seriously thinking about it now! I mean seriously thinking about it!



I hope you dont mean to harm the innocent human being inside you....she/he could be the future president of Kenya....

Sort out your domes ..but dont try that ....for
This is what the LORD says—he who made you, who formed you in the womb, and who will help you...(Isaiah 44:2).

and
The word of the LORD came to me, saying, "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations" (Jeremiah 1:4-5).
Isaiah 65:17-Look! I am creating new heavens and a new earth, and no one will even think about the old ones anymore
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sheep
#9 Posted : Monday, April 26, 2010 8:11:21 AM
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This are the kind of dilemmas that cannot be systematically analysed and u come up with a reasonable course of action...just make a decision,if it is to stay-stay put,if it is to walk away, go-period!

But always remember the consequences.Your children need their father its your choice whom to sacrifice,yourself or the children.After all love is a verb not a feeling.Divorce is almost always not the answer.
The utimate goal of investing is to buy low sell high;if we re-write this core equation in psychology terms it becomes buy fear sell greed.
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muganda
#10 Posted : Monday, April 26, 2010 8:11:49 AM
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@gift sad, very sad.

I agree that men by design are attracted to the opposite sex as fast as a snap of your fingers - just like that - perhaps the same way a woman subconciously works to attract attention to herself.

But in the same vein, the only thing that distinguishes man from animals is intellect and reasoning - so that's that, no excuses!

Okay now my lame advice:
Deal with the outcome...
I trust you're empowered, if not become so...
Lean on God, family, and friends, for support...
Psyche UP, wake UP, dress UP, cheer UP, and just live UP...
Be the best of you, for your own sake and your children's sake...

smile
Maybe it's just me, but people desire what they admire. So don't be spiteful but he needs to see (and not through words) he can loose you, and the Gift you are.
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