Rank: Member Joined: 1/20/2015 Posts: 489 Location: Nairobi
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obiero wrote:UpcomingPaperChaser wrote:As a young man, my advice to the lady is this:
1. Accept yourself for who your are. Feel so good about yourself, even if you know you are ugly, you have cancer or HIV or if you are crippled. Just accept yourself and be happy about yourself. Always be optimistic, dont be judgemental and always complain thatlife is not fair to you.
2. Work on your health, and dress well. maintain good hygiene at all times, always look presentable, brush your teeth, and ensure that you always smell good. Enroll into a gym if you are too fat or join a fitness group.
I have met so many friends playing basketball, in the gym and by just following sports.
3. Occasionally ditch your personal car and ride in mathrees. your car secludes you from intercation with so many people. in times of traffic, hop into a comfortable mat and be free to interact.
I have met awesome people in mathrees......and the landing permission granted was almost 85% success rate.
4. Dont always grin, just smile at people, friends. grinning scares men away, smiling attracts good vibes and encourages people to talk to you. Dont look so frowned that you look scary!!
5. Start intelligent conversations with anybody that is next to you, either in the bank queue, restaurant, workmates, or wherever. An intelligent conversation will rate you highly. I am an aviation enthusiast....the type that can fly a plane, Embraer 190 theoretically, though i have never come close to one, but i am so passionate about piloting that am so knowledgeable.
Whenever i meet ladies who appear smart, i twist the stories until we get to my stronghold - aviation and piloting - then i mix them with aviation jargon. at the end of the day, the are fully praising me telling me how intelligent i am!!!! after that ukiomba namba huwezi kunyimwa!
in life there are so many avenues of making good friends, both "goodies" friends and real lovers, go to bars and night clubs, its not amust that you drink alcohol. drink soda and interact with people.
Enroll for salsa dances......hapo ndio unakutana na akina sisi......join a gym club.........play games....go swimming......go hiking.....go touring......go traveling Salsa men are ideally not men. Come golf at Sigona The problem with golf is that it is more enjoyable when you are competing with maybe friends or a group..........but playing solo or making range shots can be boring........am still learning how to be an amateuer player....Handicap 24!! Enjoy every moment of your life, you never know when your time will come.
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