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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/26/2008 Posts: 2,097
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Rollout wrote:Guys, I have no problem with tits, I love tits we all love tits, young tits.... but please women if you're over 27yrs old your tits do not look that pretty, they're old and tired so please keep them hidden from the public,  Now how did your mother look at that age???  Lovely and motherly .... yes? Responsible and hardworking despite the age....yes? Dedicated and potential to bringing up the children.....yes? And that is how you were brought to this world............then again, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. "Never regret, if its good, its wonderful. If its bad, its experience."
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Rank: Member Joined: 6/21/2010 Posts: 345 Location: easto
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Tebes wrote:Rollout wrote:Guys, I have no problem with tits, I love tits we all love tits, young tits.... but please women if you're over 27yrs old your tits do not look that pretty, they're old and tired so please keep them hidden from the public, Now how did your mother look at that age??? Lovely and motherly .... yes? Responsible and hardworking despite the age....yes? Dedicated and potential to bringing up the children.....yes? And that is how you were brought to this world............then again, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. The issue here is showing flesh that is aged. Its not war against women. I have a wife/mother/sisters/female friends who i respect so much but agree with Rollout. If they are not decent, have them covered. We all buy new cloths when what we have grow old, its the same concept.
But because we can't replace busts when they age, we have to cover them. Y do we have push-up bras, surgeries and breast firming products? Its because ladies want to look good.
Rollout was blunt, maybe mean, but its the reality. Showing cleavage is an act of seduction. Human beings are wired to love seeing pretty, nice things. Am sure men here wont look twice at legs covered with cellulite. They are some of the unfortunate events of mother nature . Am not sure ladies will love seeing vitambis exposed in the streets. "The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts, while the stupid ones are full of confidence." ― Charles Bukowski
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Rank: Member Joined: 5/9/2011 Posts: 178 Location: Nairobi
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tnai9 wrote:Tebes wrote:Rollout wrote:Guys, I have no problem with tits, I love tits we all love tits, young tits.... but please women if you're over 27yrs old your tits do not look that pretty, they're old and tired so please keep them hidden from the public, Now how did your mother look at that age??? Lovely and motherly .... yes? Responsible and hardworking despite the age....yes? Dedicated and potential to bringing up the children.....yes? And that is how you were brought to this world............then again, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. The issue here is showing flesh that is aged. Its not war against women. I have a wife/mother/sisters/female friends who i respect so much but agree with Rollout. If they are not decent, have them covered. We all buy new cloths when what we have grow old, its the same concept.
But because we can't replace busts when they age, we have to cover them. Y do we have push-up bras, surgeries and breast firming products? Its because ladies want to look good.
Rollout was blunt, maybe mean, but its the reality. Showing cleavage is an act of seduction. Human beings are wired to love seeing pretty, nice things. Am sure men here wont look twice at legs covered with cellulite. They are some of the unfortunate events of mother nature . Am not sure ladies will love seeing vitambis exposed in the streets. And wow unto those ladies who drink like their grandfathers..by the time you hit your thirties you will have lost it..cleavage and that fanta bamboocha figure i see them all the time Those who follow the crowd usually get lost in it
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/15/2011 Posts: 4,518
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slickyoz wrote:
And wow unto those ladies who drink like their grandfathers..by the time you hit your thirties you will have lost it..cleavage and that fanta bamboocha figure i see them all the time
Am sure you didn't mean that. May I sambaza woe to you. Surely,does life revolve around cleavage?  Unajua this cleavage has brought down many men and ruined careers. Ask Adam,Samson,Bill,Tiger,Kemboi,Obama's security detail,and makosa imefanyika dude. Alcohol,Cigarretes are all harmful to the bodies of both of men and women.Drink beetroot not beer,avoid cleavage and live long. "The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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Rank: Member Joined: 5/9/2011 Posts: 178 Location: Nairobi
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essyk wrote:slickyoz wrote:
And wow unto those ladies who drink like their grandfathers..by the time you hit your thirties you will have lost it..cleavage and that fanta bamboocha figure i see them all the time
Am sure you didn't mean that. May I sambaza woe to you. Surely,does life revolve around cleavage? Unajua this cleavage has brought down many men and ruined careers. Ask Adam,Samson,Bill,Tiger,Kemboi,Obama's security detail,and makosa imefanyika dude. Alcohol,Cigarretes are all harmful to the bodies of both of men and women.Drink beetroot not beer,avoid cleavage and live long. got me..yeah that one.. Those who follow the crowd usually get lost in it
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Today I realized that I'm so lonely, and when I went through this thread it got even worse.
I feel as if I'm trying to live among the dead, and it's either I succumb to the ways of the dead or 'I don't know what happens next'.
I'm stuck.
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Rank: Member Joined: 8/25/2015 Posts: 839 Location: Kite
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tycho wrote:Today I realized that I'm so lonely, and when I went through this thread it got even worse.
I feel as if I'm trying to live among the dead, and it's either I succumb to the ways of the dead or 'I don't know what happens next'.
I'm stuck. Wapi?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Taurrus wrote:tycho wrote:Today I realized that I'm so lonely, and when I went through this thread it got even worse.
I feel as if I'm trying to live among the dead, and it's either I succumb to the ways of the dead or 'I don't know what happens next'.
I'm stuck. Wapi? Good question. I've been stuck at the point of finding a basis for my relationships.
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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tycho wrote:Taurrus wrote:tycho wrote:Today I realized that I'm so lonely, and when I went through this thread it got even worse.
I feel as if I'm trying to live among the dead, and it's either I succumb to the ways of the dead or 'I don't know what happens next'.
I'm stuck. Wapi? Good question. I've been stuck at the point of finding a basis for my relationships. If you're a christian, the basis can be found in the bible "love God and Others" If you aren't a christianthe basis should be personality and common interests and likes If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Swenani wrote:tycho wrote:Taurrus wrote:tycho wrote:Today I realized that I'm so lonely, and when I went through this thread it got even worse.
I feel as if I'm trying to live among the dead, and it's either I succumb to the ways of the dead or 'I don't know what happens next'.
I'm stuck. Wapi? Good question. I've been stuck at the point of finding a basis for my relationships. If you're a christian, the basis can be found in the bible "love God and Others" If you aren't a christianthe basis should be personality and common interests and likes So, it all depends on my religious affiliation or belief system that I get to learn with time?
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Rank: Member Joined: 8/25/2015 Posts: 839 Location: Kite
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When you get a solution share,same here
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/4/2006 Posts: 13,822 Location: Nairobi
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Quote:
When some great sorrow, like a mighty river,
Flows through your life with peace-destroying power
And dearest things are swept from sight forever,
Say to your heart each trying hour:
"This, too, shall pass away."
When ceaseless toil has hushed your song of gladness,
And you have grown almost too tired to pray,
Let this truth banish from your heart its sadness,
And ease the burdens of each day:
"This, too, shall pass away."
When fortune smiles, and, full of mirth and pleasure,
The days are flitting by without a care,
Lest you should rest with only earthly treasure,
Let these few words their fullest import bear:
"This, too, shall pass away."
When earnest labor brings you fame and glory,
And all earth's noblest ones upon you smile,
Remember that life's longest, grandest story
Fills but a moment in earth's little while:
"This, too, shall pass away."
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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Taurrus wrote:When you get a solution share,same here I've found that selfishness lies at the heart of all loneliness. I move away from people who are selfish, people move away from me because of my selfishness. Selfishness cripples relationships. Loneliness is about dysfunctional relationships. From a sociological perspective, the society is meant to help the individual optimize his/herself; and the individual is supposed to help the society flourish. These two roles are the feminine in the former, and masculine in the latter. Selfishness distorts all this. From a psychological perspective, selfishness is an outcome of ignorance and a deep sense of impotence and limitation. One has to train the mind out of selfishness and loneliness. It goes beyond injunctions or maxims. The basis for human relationships as @swenani hinted must be universal and unconditional love born of enlightenment. Loneliness goes deep into how cultural values are selected and pursued, and how members of a particular culture respond to these values. A capitalist system is very likely to create loneliness in the cities for example. So far, the mind training system that has helped me even in this meditation is called 'lojong'- a part of yoga. It's called 'the great medicine', and I concur.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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masukuma wrote:Quote:
When some great sorrow, like a mighty river,
Flows through your life with peace-destroying power
And dearest things are swept from sight forever,
Say to your heart each trying hour:
"This, too, shall pass away."
When ceaseless toil has hushed your song of gladness,
And you have grown almost too tired to pray,
Let this truth banish from your heart its sadness,
And ease the burdens of each day:
"This, too, shall pass away."
When fortune smiles, and, full of mirth and pleasure,
The days are flitting by without a care,
Lest you should rest with only earthly treasure,
Let these few words their fullest import bear:
"This, too, shall pass away."
When earnest labor brings you fame and glory,
And all earth's noblest ones upon you smile,
Remember that life's longest, grandest story
Fills but a moment in earth's little while:
"This, too, shall pass away."
This is actually part of mind training called 'the way of wisdom'; where one meditates on the emptiness of the mind, of phenomena, and of the self. By meditating on these I managed to be detached enough to see my relationships from a distance. Then I could investigate and analyze them.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 5/5/2011 Posts: 1,059
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There is a big difference between being lonely and being alone, I am an introvert I like being alone most of the time, being lonely is not having anyone around when you need one To Each His Own
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/1/2011 Posts: 8,804 Location: Nairobi
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kayhara wrote:There is a big difference between being lonely and being alone, I am an introvert I like being alone most of the time, being lonely is not having anyone around when you need one Loneliness goes deeper than this. People may be around in your hour of need, but still be lonely. It's a sense of cosmic incompleteness.
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/20/2015 Posts: 489 Location: Nairobi
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As a young man, my advice to the lady is this: 1. Accept yourself for who your are. Feel so good about yourself, even if you know you are ugly, you have cancer or HIV or if you are crippled. Just accept yourself and be happy about yourself. Always be optimistic, dont be judgemental and always complain thatlife is not fair to you. 2. Work on your health, and dress well. maintain good hygiene at all times, always look presentable, brush your teeth, and ensure that you always smell good. Enroll into a gym if you are too fat or join a fitness group. I have met so many friends playing basketball, in the gym and by just following sports. 3. Occasionally ditch your personal car and ride in mathrees. your car secludes you from intercation with so many people. in times of traffic, hop into a comfortable mat and be free to interact. I have met awesome people in mathrees......and the landing permission granted was almost 85% success rate. 4. Dont always grin, just smile at people, friends. grinning scares men away, smiling attracts good vibes and encourages people to talk to you. Dont look so frowned that you look scary!! 5. Start intelligent conversations with anybody that is next to you, either in the bank queue, restaurant, workmates, or wherever. An intelligent conversation will rate you highly. I am an aviation enthusiast....the type that can fly a plane, Embraer 190 theoretically, though i have never come close to one, but i am so passionate about piloting that am so knowledgeable. Whenever i meet ladies who appear smart, i twist the stories until we get to my stronghold - aviation and piloting - then i mix them with aviation jargon. at the end of the day, the are fully praising me telling me how intelligent i am!!!! after that ukiomba namba huwezi kunyimwa! in life there are so many avenues of making good friends, both "goodies" friends and real lovers, go to bars and night clubs, its not amust that you drink alcohol. drink soda and interact with people. Enroll for salsa dances......hapo ndio unakutana na akina sisi......join a gym club.........play games....go swimming......go hiking.....go touring......go traveling Enjoy every moment of your life, you never know when your time will come.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/23/2009 Posts: 13,783 Location: nairobi
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UpcomingPaperChaser wrote:As a young man, my advice to the lady is this:
1. Accept yourself for who your are. Feel so good about yourself, even if you know you are ugly, you have cancer or HIV or if you are crippled. Just accept yourself and be happy about yourself. Always be optimistic, dont be judgemental and always complain thatlife is not fair to you.
2. Work on your health, and dress well. maintain good hygiene at all times, always look presentable, brush your teeth, and ensure that you always smell good. Enroll into a gym if you are too fat or join a fitness group.
I have met so many friends playing basketball, in the gym and by just following sports.
3. Occasionally ditch your personal car and ride in mathrees. your car secludes you from intercation with so many people. in times of traffic, hop into a comfortable mat and be free to interact.
I have met awesome people in mathrees......and the landing permission granted was almost 85% success rate.
4. Dont always grin, just smile at people, friends. grinning scares men away, smiling attracts good vibes and encourages people to talk to you. Dont look so frowned that you look scary!!
5. Start intelligent conversations with anybody that is next to you, either in the bank queue, restaurant, workmates, or wherever. An intelligent conversation will rate you highly. I am an aviation enthusiast....the type that can fly a plane, Embraer 190 theoretically, though i have never come close to one, but i am so passionate about piloting that am so knowledgeable.
Whenever i meet ladies who appear smart, i twist the stories until we get to my stronghold - aviation and piloting - then i mix them with aviation jargon. at the end of the day, the are fully praising me telling me how intelligent i am!!!! after that ukiomba namba huwezi kunyimwa!
in life there are so many avenues of making good friends, both "goodies" friends and real lovers, go to bars and night clubs, its not amust that you drink alcohol. drink soda and interact with people.
Enroll for salsa dances......hapo ndio unakutana na akina sisi......join a gym club.........play games....go swimming......go hiking.....go touring......go traveling Salsa men are ideally not men. Come golf at Sigona
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Rank: Member Joined: 8/25/2015 Posts: 839 Location: Kite
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@Tycho does money come in?
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