Rank: Elder Joined: 6/23/2009 Posts: 14,180 Location: nairobi
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AlphDoti wrote:Swenani wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:obiero wrote:AlphDoti wrote:obiero wrote:how late is late for the wife, isnt it an african curse for her to come after midnight from an office/wedding party You didn't set these rules at the beginning of your marriage? You got her used to coming as she wish and now you want to question it? There is something called setting the basis, which if not done on first instance, then you lost it! Haiya. Nani amesema ni mimi.. Ni swali tu nimeuliza kwa ujumla :) One off is allowed, provided there was communication. Marriage is not jail but a union. Kuzoeiya ndiye mbaya. She can't go out without me, there might be another swenani out there waiting to pound her! @obeiro, sorry for making it look like it is you. Now, true it should never be a habit, only for if you are aware and approved it and it was necessary and she should be accompanied by yourself or her brother or her father. Anything other than that will lead to bad things you will regret about. Because it is more risky for a woman out there alone late at night, do not trust her friends or taxi driver etc. That is the gospel truth
KQ ABP 4.26
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