quicksand wrote:There is no such thing as 'a marriage of equals'. Ati you are all bringing roughly equivalent dough to the table? Shida tupu. One spouse must be ready to eat the humble pie when the other becomes unreasonable. Otherwise she will go 'kwani? I too was slaving in the office...ingia jikoni' and then soon after other men will be bending her over in car backseats in some woody cul-de-sac kwanza mchana and then those same men pump your hand like true comrades and buy you beer.
Noma. Some men are fools.
Kabisa, regardless of how much your woman is earning, a man should always do the following without asking/borrowing money from the wife;
1. Pay rent
2. Buy food
3. Pay school fees
4. Buy clothes for family
5. Pesa ya saloon
6.Pay utilities.
7. pay for all property acquisition-The wife can own her separate property but never ever let it be a family property
Kama unasaidiwa na bibi, there is a problem coming up soon
If Obiero did it, Who Am I?