& how do you stop the clande from coming out of the closet (with enough evidence)? If she talks...you're done!

I once knew this mzee who had a hot gacungwa/second wife or something. Every once in a while he would invite me to join them for drinks at our local. No sooner would i be seated than his dog would run in from his car run around us and go back, i made nothing of it till i met the guys bodyguard after the guy passed on, apparently the dog was trained to sniff if you have dipped your mkwajo into his gacungwa and i was a suspect. Dont imagine you can cover your tracks.

@sparkly you will be surprised the lengths people go to, look at the Arabs, they completely cover their women, completely confine them but bado "makosa inafanyika". Sometimes i say i would rather a lady who has come to the conclusion that "wanaume wako hivyo" and leaves me to randa randa in peace as long as i meet her material obligations and service her once in a while rather than one who forever keeps checking my pockets (thinking i don't know she always checks), drawers, sniffing my shirt, going through my phone, becoming "pals" with lady workmates, eavesdropping on my calls for info and all that nonsense

@magigi wachana na tiger woods. So what if he is screwing anything that walks. If you like his golf and style that should be it. The idea of sports men and celebrities being role models is nonsense kama unataka role model look at the bible. Tiger rocks on the golf course ..... period!

It is good to marvel at these things
But I see lot s of novices in your statements.
Shak: your Mpesa theory may look good, but it depends on if the other person is registered. And not all people use Face book, so, there are lots of chances in it.
@All
Cheating will never solve the problems, and there will be no justification in cheating
Reading these things make me laugh but then I wonder, are these things real? Cos I am left to wonder, why cheat? Why not just divorce and then take the person you love?
Dunia imetoboka, wapi Pastor/Dr Prophet Owuor? Kenya imekuwa Haiti.