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I don’t think it is negligence but just bad luck– many at time I go with my kids to social amenities and let them free to play. The man who marries a beautiful woman, and the farmer who grows corn by the roadside have the same problem
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 8/25/2012 Posts: 1,826
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ZZE123 wrote:I don’t think it is negligence but just bad luck– many at time I go with my kids to social amenities and let them free to play. A four year old should be under constant supervision especially at a public place, and that's the role of the parent, plus also its the role of the parent to impact life skills in children.
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sitaki.kujulikana wrote:ZZE123 wrote:I don’t think it is negligence but just bad luck– many at time I go with my kids to social amenities and let them free to play. A four year old should be under constant supervision especially at a public place, and that's the role of the parent, plus also its the role of the parent to impact life skills in children. Mido crass problems.you pretend to take your shildren out but you are taking yourself out.Just busy with fombe and nyamachoma with no regard to where or what your kids are doing. Consistency is better than intensity
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 9/11/2015 Posts: 1,024
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PeterReborn wrote:sitaki.kujulikana wrote:ZZE123 wrote:I don’t think it is negligence but just bad luck– many at time I go with my kids to social amenities and let them free to play. A four year old should be under constant supervision especially at a public place, and that's the role of the parent, plus also its the role of the parent to impact life skills in children. Mido crass problems.you pretend to take your shildren out but you are taking yourself out.Just busy with fombe and nyamachoma with no regard to where or what your kids are doing. True! True!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/4/2006 Posts: 13,822 Location: Nairobi
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PeterReborn wrote:sitaki.kujulikana wrote:ZZE123 wrote:I don’t think it is negligence but just bad luck– many at time I go with my kids to social amenities and let them free to play. A four year old should be under constant supervision especially at a public place, and that's the role of the parent, plus also its the role of the parent to impact life skills in children. Mido crass problems.you pretend to take your shildren out but you are taking yourself out.Just busy with fombe and nyamachoma with no regard to where or what your kids are doing. here we go again!.... kwani watoto hawakuwa wanapotea zamani? My mum once left me looking at a window in town like back when Nakumatt used to be Nakuru Mattress but we met not so long after that. We were both terrified. It happens! you look one way and in that instance something happens and if the kid becomes creative 'tries to look for the parents' it becomes worse! But it's a good thing that humans are now really connected. All Mushrooms are edible! Some Mushroom are only edible ONCE!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/18/2011 Posts: 12,069 Location: Kianjokoma
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masukuma wrote:PeterReborn wrote:sitaki.kujulikana wrote:ZZE123 wrote:I don’t think it is negligence but just bad luck– many at time I go with my kids to social amenities and let them free to play. A four year old should be under constant supervision especially at a public place, and that's the role of the parent, plus also its the role of the parent to impact life skills in children. Mido crass problems.you pretend to take your shildren out but you are taking yourself out.Just busy with fombe and nyamachoma with no regard to where or what your kids are doing. here we go again!.... kwani watoto hawakuwa wanapotea zamani? My mum once left me looking at a window in town like back when Nakumatt used to be Nakuru Mattress but we met not so long after that. We were both terrified. It happens! you look one way and in that instance something happens and if the kid becomes creative 'tries to look for the parents' it becomes worse! But it's a good thing that humans are now really connected. middo kless has always existed 
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/28/2015 Posts: 9,562 Location: Rodi Kopany, Homa Bay
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PeterReborn wrote:sitaki.kujulikana wrote:ZZE123 wrote:I don’t think it is negligence but just bad luck– many at time I go with my kids to social amenities and let them free to play. A four year old should be under constant supervision especially at a public place, and that's the role of the parent, plus also its the role of the parent to impact life skills in children. Mido crass problems.you pretend to take your shildren out but you are taking yourself out.Just busy with fombe and nyamachoma with no regard to where or what your kids are doing. Spare a thought for the parents. I can imagine what they are going through. Some time back i was at the supermarket and as i was busy looking at some item my boy walked away and got out of sight. You cant believe the panic that set in for the one minute i couldn't find him. Lets pray that the parents find their son.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 8/25/2012 Posts: 1,826
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masukuma wrote:PeterReborn wrote:sitaki.kujulikana wrote:ZZE123 wrote:I don’t think it is negligence but just bad luck– many at time I go with my kids to social amenities and let them free to play. A four year old should be under constant supervision especially at a public place, and that's the role of the parent, plus also its the role of the parent to impact life skills in children. Mido crass problems.you pretend to take your shildren out but you are taking yourself out.Just busy with fombe and nyamachoma with no regard to where or what your kids are doing. here we go again!.... kwani watoto hawakuwa wanapotea zamani? My mum once left me looking at a window in town like back when Nakumatt used to be Nakuru Mattress but we met not so long after that. We were both terrified. It happens! you look one way and in that instance something happens and if the kid becomes creative 'tries to look for the parents' it becomes worse! But it's a good thing that humans are now really connected. in your case your mom was just messing wit u, just testing to see how chap chap you were, she had you in her sights.  But a family losing a 4 year old at impala club and the kid being found on the southern bypass is negligence, you take your 4 year old out you are responsible for them, you keep an eye on them at all times.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/28/2015 Posts: 9,562 Location: Rodi Kopany, Homa Bay
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sitaki.kujulikana wrote:masukuma wrote:PeterReborn wrote:sitaki.kujulikana wrote:ZZE123 wrote:I don’t think it is negligence but just bad luck– many at time I go with my kids to social amenities and let them free to play. A four year old should be under constant supervision especially at a public place, and that's the role of the parent, plus also its the role of the parent to impact life skills in children. Mido crass problems.you pretend to take your shildren out but you are taking yourself out.Just busy with fombe and nyamachoma with no regard to where or what your kids are doing. here we go again!.... kwani watoto hawakuwa wanapotea zamani? My mum once left me looking at a window in town like back when Nakumatt used to be Nakuru Mattress but we met not so long after that. We were both terrified. It happens! you look one way and in that instance something happens and if the kid becomes creative 'tries to look for the parents' it becomes worse! But it's a good thing that humans are now really connected. in your case your mom was just messing wit u, just testing to see how chap chap you were, she had you in her sights. But a family losing a 4 year old at impala club and the kid being found on the southern bypass is negligence, you take your 4 year old out you are responsible for them, you keep an eye on them at all times. How did he end up there?
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masukuma wrote:PeterReborn wrote:sitaki.kujulikana wrote:ZZE123 wrote:I don’t think it is negligence but just bad luck– many at time I go with my kids to social amenities and let them free to play. A four year old should be under constant supervision especially at a public place, and that's the role of the parent, plus also its the role of the parent to impact life skills in children. Mido crass problems.you pretend to take your shildren out but you are taking yourself out.Just busy with fombe and nyamachoma with no regard to where or what your kids are doing. here we go again!.... kwani watoto hawakuwa wanapotea zamani? My mum once left me looking at a window in town like back when Nakumatt used to be Nakuru Mattress but we met not so long after that. We were both terrified. It happens! you look one way and in that instance something happens and if the kid becomes creative 'tries to look for the parents' it becomes worse! But it's a good thing that humans are now really connected. very very true.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 8/25/2012 Posts: 1,826
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hardwood wrote:PeterReborn wrote:sitaki.kujulikana wrote:ZZE123 wrote:I don’t think it is negligence but just bad luck– many at time I go with my kids to social amenities and let them free to play. A four year old should be under constant supervision especially at a public place, and that's the role of the parent, plus also its the role of the parent to impact life skills in children. Mido crass problems.you pretend to take your shildren out but you are taking yourself out.Just busy with fombe and nyamachoma with no regard to where or what your kids are doing. Spare a thought for the parents. I can imagine what they are going through. Some time back i was at the supermarket and as i was busy looking at some item my boy walked away and got out of sight. You cant believe the panic that set in for the one minute i couldn't find him. Lets pray that the parents find their son. That's the responsibility that comes with parenthood, it means you are responsible for your kid, and if such an incident happens you don't get pats on the shoulder and woishe that it happens to everyone. You don't just lose your 4 year old at such a place and they end up on a highway some kilometers away.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 8/25/2012 Posts: 1,826
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hardwood wrote:sitaki.kujulikana wrote:masukuma wrote:PeterReborn wrote:sitaki.kujulikana wrote:ZZE123 wrote:I don’t think it is negligence but just bad luck– many at time I go with my kids to social amenities and let them free to play. A four year old should be under constant supervision especially at a public place, and that's the role of the parent, plus also its the role of the parent to impact life skills in children. Mido crass problems.you pretend to take your shildren out but you are taking yourself out.Just busy with fombe and nyamachoma with no regard to where or what your kids are doing. here we go again!.... kwani watoto hawakuwa wanapotea zamani? My mum once left me looking at a window in town like back when Nakumatt used to be Nakuru Mattress but we met not so long after that. We were both terrified. It happens! you look one way and in that instance something happens and if the kid becomes creative 'tries to look for the parents' it becomes worse! But it's a good thing that humans are now really connected. in your case your mom was just messing wit u, just testing to see how chap chap you were, she had you in her sights. But a family losing a 4 year old at impala club and the kid being found on the southern bypass is negligence, you take your 4 year old out you are responsible for them, you keep an eye on them at all times. How did he end up there? Quote:
What they didn't know is that when their son walked out of the club, a good Samaritan bumped into him along the Langata Bypass and took him to Karen Police station where he spent the night.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/4/2006 Posts: 13,822 Location: Nairobi
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hardwood wrote:
Spare a thought for the parents. I can imagine what they are going through. Some time back i was at the supermarket and as i was busy looking at some item my boy walked away and got out of sight. You cant believe the panic that set in for the one minute i couldn't find him. Lets pray that the parents find their son.
This happens... a close friend had exactly the same episode and the son disappeared. It was at T-Mall and the kid decided to walk home (kids these days are smart). crossed Langata road both sides (after asking for assistance from strangers to cross the road) and went HOME! In this case the kid could have decided to try and look for the folks and each move the kid makes makes it more difficult for the parents to find them. My heart goes out to the parents of the kids. THIS HAPPENS! UNAZUBAA KIDOGO AND THINGS ESCALATE REAL FAST! My friends were heart broken after combing through T-Mall and finding nothing only for the mboch to call them like an hour later taht the son amekuja home peke yake. All Mushrooms are edible! Some Mushroom are only edible ONCE!
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 8/25/2012 Posts: 1,826
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I think we just trying to justify a failure, call it as it is, in @kiash land the parents would have been questioned by authorities and would have had some explaining to do.
I mean we are talking about a 4 year old, who gets time to walk out of impala and is found several kilometers away on some highway, but we are the same guys who drive with their kids front seat, literary next to the windshield and see nothing wrong with that.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 9/19/2015 Posts: 2,871 Location: hapo
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Please don't comment on this issue if you don't have a 4 year old boy. Some comments are best left to those that know better. I can't even fathom the pain for the parents. So I shall leave it at that. Thieves are not good people. Tumeelewana?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/28/2015 Posts: 9,562 Location: Rodi Kopany, Homa Bay
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PeterReborn wrote:sitaki.kujulikana wrote:ZZE123 wrote:I don’t think it is negligence but just bad luck– many at time I go with my kids to social amenities and let them free to play. A four year old should be under constant supervision especially at a public place, and that's the role of the parent, plus also its the role of the parent to impact life skills in children. Mido crass problems.you pretend to take your shildren out but you are taking yourself out.Just busy with fombe and nyamachoma with no regard to where or what your kids are doing. Surely you cant stand guard next to the bouncing castle for 2hrs on a sunday afternoon as your kid plays with his friends. You itisha some tusker as you watch some football expecting that the employee manning the castle is watching over the kids as you would have agreed with him/her.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 8/25/2012 Posts: 1,826
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hardwood wrote:PeterReborn wrote:sitaki.kujulikana wrote:ZZE123 wrote:I don’t think it is negligence but just bad luck– many at time I go with my kids to social amenities and let them free to play. A four year old should be under constant supervision especially at a public place, and that's the role of the parent, plus also its the role of the parent to impact life skills in children. Mido crass problems.you pretend to take your shildren out but you are taking yourself out.Just busy with fombe and nyamachoma with no regard to where or what your kids are doing. Surely you cant stand guard next to the bouncing castle for 2hrs on a sunday afternoon as your kid plays with his friends. You itisha some tusker as you watch some football expecting that the employee at the castle is watching over the kids as you would have agreed with him/her. just have the househelp come along and look after the kid
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 8/25/2012 Posts: 1,826
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alma1 wrote:Please don't comment on this issue if you don't have a 4 year old boy. Some comments are best left to those that know better.
I can't even fathom the pain for the parents. So I shall leave it at that. you sound like the evangelicals who tell you, shauri yako unacheza na mungu, utaona.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/28/2015 Posts: 9,562 Location: Rodi Kopany, Homa Bay
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sitaki.kujulikana wrote:hardwood wrote:PeterReborn wrote:sitaki.kujulikana wrote:ZZE123 wrote:I don’t think it is negligence but just bad luck– many at time I go with my kids to social amenities and let them free to play. A four year old should be under constant supervision especially at a public place, and that's the role of the parent, plus also its the role of the parent to impact life skills in children. Mido crass problems.you pretend to take your shildren out but you are taking yourself out.Just busy with fombe and nyamachoma with no regard to where or what your kids are doing. Surely you cant stand guard next to the bouncing castle for 2hrs on a sunday afternoon as your kid plays with his friends. You itisha some tusker as you watch some football expecting that the employee at the castle is watching over the kids as you would have agreed with him/her. just have the househelp come along and look after the kid They normally have their weekly day off on sunday so that they can go to church and also socialise. Mine doesn't work on sunday 9am - 6pm and is always away during that period.
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