Swenani wrote:BikoZulu had to changia too....Unknowingly!
Fendi ManQuote:Let me digress here a tad. I’m asking this for a pal. It’s about corsets and sijui waist trainers. Err, what’s up with these things? And I’m asking this out of pure male ignorance; when you as a woman (you can also answer this Luis, if you want) wear a corset or waist trimmer under that lovely dress, then go ahead & deceive the whole world for the whole day and into the evening, before a mirror, you slip out of this elaborate lie and stand there with your wobbly bits taking the shape of the room… how do you sleep at night? Even more important, how do you breathe in those damn things?
Here is what I think is the sexiest thing in an African woman. When she wears a fitting dress and her stomach shows this small bump, nothing too large, just a small bump that protrudes and then plunges down to her special area, like a well curved slope. That little bump? It says I’m a woman not a model. It says I love to eat and sometimes, I may over-eat. It says this is what Africa is all about; curves. It says I have come into my womanhood and I am proud. It’s a middle finger to salads. Let that small bump stay. That bump is the hope of a better tomorrow. Let it be. That shit is sexy.
shida ni, definition ya hiyo small bump.
But however the issue is dressed, bumps or no bumps I think its plain stupid when one pants like crazy and has to take a rest every time they climb two steps.
The traditional african woman is always healthy and lean, spending the whole day tilling the land, fetching water and looking after the household. This african woman is big is crap, traditional african women are pure models by today's standards.
Even in the wider animal kingdom, do you ever see fat felines, when you watch that nat geo wild ever noticed a fat feline.
Nature has made it look unappealing for a healthy reason.