devastating. wapi wamama pia wao watoe maoni? hii maoni naona kama ni ya wasee peke yake. @pretty should make all these dudes fold their tails, with her/his post representing the fairer sex

If your clande is called 'Jane' save her in your mobile as 'Steve' or vice versa then if your significant other sees the SMS from the clande you can go like "whats wrong with steve, sending funny messages i cannot understand"

Remember your wife is always number one. Usiwe na madharau. Respect her and do not deny her TIME, ATTENTION and CONJUGAL RIGHTS. LISTEN more than you talk. Let her feel loved. Only when she feels safe and secure can you play away games without getting caught.

Do not get emotionally connected with your gacungwa, in fact if possible she should not even know your real name. Let the relationship be restricted to good sex only. You should be the only one who calls. If you feel any emotional attachment leave her immediately alternatively have many of them and rotate.

I had a similar discussion..then out of nowhere a jamaa says ati once u rudi from your clande, the wife should weka the 2 balls on water....if they float! the contents were probably emptied away from home..and u r busted

@ Impunity..jina is "no stopping this"..usinipe jina ingine the bibi just wekaz them in shallow water hoping that they sink Anyway, kama bibi anataka kukupata, it is inevitable..they can be very patient to unearth the truth...a guy was fwatwad to his clandes place by the wife....you can guess what she did took the car home with the spare keys..you can imagine his shock when he wanted to leave for home then he goes home to find the car there..na ujua he had initially called the wife to tell her, he had been carjacked, and she had offered to lipa taxi when he arrived. The she chezas psychology...she is not zushaing or raising issue on the subject for a couple of days! The guy cracked!