Every other married couple is doing this, ama?

Nope, it's just you and tycho alone

Under the new constitution Chapter 3 (45) we expect much better behavior from Kenyans in families freed from Babylon system.

45. (1) The family is the natural and fundamental unit of society
and the necessary basis of social order, and shall enjoy the recognition
Economic and social
rights.
Language and
culture.
Family.
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and protection of the State.
(2) Every adult has the right to marry a person of the opposite
sex, based on the free consent of the parties.
(3) Parties to a marriage are entitled to equal rights at the time
of the marriage, during the marriage and at the dissolution of the
marriage.
(4) Parliament shall enact legislation that recognises—
(a) marriages concluded under any tradition, or system of
religious, personal or family law; and
(b) any system of personal and family law under any tradition,
or adhered to by persons professing a particular religion,
to the extent that any such marriages orsystems of law are consistent
with this Constitution.