Rank: Member Joined: 1/20/2015 Posts: 489 Location: Nairobi
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AlphDoti wrote:UpcomingPaperChaser wrote:...Lusting at a woman with a big behind is nature, its relfex. If am protecting my myself there is no cause of worry if my wee wee goes wondering. @UpcomingPaperChaser, you're still young. It's reflex yes, but you need to control it. You're not a brainless animal! But I agree it isn't easy. It's hard not to stare. It's difficult to look away when it's all there. But, don't feed your lust nor set it ablaze. Let me speak for myself. Muslims are taught to remember the order, to lower your gaze. If you notice something which is ' really something' in front of you, politely ask her to rather walk behind you. Or turn around and go home, ask your wife to abandon everything she's doing, that there's an urgent situation. You can even call her to drive home immediately if she's at work smile. People say what's the harm in it. It's nothing but fun! A lustful look towards the opposite gender is all that it takes to set off the trigger. It leads to sin. It paves the way for fornication. And @wendz said " Now,with so many of us(ladies) dressing so provocatively,how many times will i have to go back home....... and in all these days,sometimes 3 times in a day - if he is that lustful, the reason for absence at work will be.......? Imagine if we live in ruai,jam ya mtindwa na jogoo road..... aaaih,yawa... when are we gonna be working?" @wendz, believe me, one shot is enough for him for the day. He won't have energy to look or if he looked, it would be harmless. So don't worry about 2nd, or 3rd or 4th times. It won't happen  Some Islam teachings irritate some of us please, they were coined at a time when civilization had not yet materialized. So Islam teachings apply to yourselves and do not tell us what we are supposed to do, i choose whether to control myself or not, without religion!! Enjoy every moment of your life, you never know when your time will come.
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