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Arunga,a classic case of children raised by single women.
Impunity
#11 Posted : Tuesday, February 23, 2010 6:46:18 AM
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Huyu Esther ako na some siblings kweli?Like younger siz at say 25 years?
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Intelligentsia
#12 Posted : Tuesday, February 23, 2010 7:49:16 AM
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muganda wrote:
But hats off go to single mothers, they do a fab job!!!

In the same vein kudos to single fathers, I have seen them do a fab job too!
Its tough for our sisters being single women, nobody says XYZ turned out like this or that because he/ she was raised by a single dad!!


poundfoolish
#13 Posted : Tuesday, February 23, 2010 7:52:07 AM
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lets face it... In general from my observations(where i live and schoolmates) Most,BUT NOT ALL, children brought up by one parent are hazardous to society.. more so worse if brought up by single mother...
lest anybody mention Barak Obama in defence.. the mother remarried
bkismat
#14 Posted : Tuesday, February 23, 2010 8:48:49 AM
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and its worse when its a single child coz the mum's world revolves around him/her. in the end they think the whole world should treat them the same.
It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt...
-Mark Twain
gathinga
#15 Posted : Tuesday, February 23, 2010 9:01:02 AM
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I lean towards those who say kids brought up by single mothers have a problem. Chicks especially who have, from their childhood, never encountered a man's way of doing things find it quite hard to adopt. They grew up being pampered and have probably never known the word 'no' said with authority. Woe unto any dude who dates them...from experience, its a nightmare even to make decisions with them.

Dudes brought up by single mothers are spoilt and irresponsible. Many are known not to take responsibility (living with mom till 40) and may exhibit strong affinity for relationships where the woman is the provider. Initially, they may be very attractive to date for women coz they're basically very girly and will not exert control in a relationship. The downside comes when bread has to be put on the table or when hard decisions have to be made....the dudes will simply be quite slippery

In the end, I also believe that someones individual nature contributes significantly to their xter and therefore upbringing contributes only a fraction

Ray
#16 Posted : Tuesday, February 23, 2010 12:02:22 PM
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Just because you come from a single family is not an excuse to be irresponsible.Matheri came from a nuclear family and he was a criminal.It's the high time men learn to take responsibility and acknowledge their children even those that are as a result of their extra marital affairs / sexual escapades.To all single women out there Hat's off.
@ Impunity - R u married?
mukaju
#17 Posted : Tuesday, February 23, 2010 12:45:12 PM
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Single parents do a great job,be more careful with conclusions
Pierce
#18 Posted : Tuesday, February 23, 2010 1:34:54 PM
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Mukaju........I agree with you fully
Phaoro
#19 Posted : Tuesday, February 23, 2010 1:51:10 PM
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You can be raised by both parents who are jackasses and still turn out to be a melon so your logic of blaming single parenting does not fly.
Intelligentsia
#20 Posted : Wednesday, February 24, 2010 6:47:12 AM
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Just to clear the air, know ye all men that:

- Esther's dad is alive. She was therefore brought up in a 2-parent/nuclear family home,
- Esther is actually Luo,not Luhya.
- Esther is the only girl of the 3 kids her parents had; one of her bros works as a medical officer in a referral hosi in Kenya.
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