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Arunga,a classic case of children raised by single women.
Impunity
#1 Posted : Monday, February 22, 2010 11:23:03 AM
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Thats why we have always reminded our ladies to allow us to marry them and raise the children together.This lifestyle of looking for an impregnator should be resisted at all cost.
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#2 Posted : Monday, February 22, 2010 11:41:27 AM
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were it not for the pain the mother and family is going thru.. i would have laughed my self off
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#3 Posted : Monday, February 22, 2010 11:49:01 AM
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IMPUNITY is back, lol!!!!
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#4 Posted : Monday, February 22, 2010 1:58:29 PM
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@Impunity you have just committed a fallacy. How many cases like the one for Esther have you encountered?..only one i know and that does not give you reason to concluded that what happened was as a result of being brought up by a single Mum.Shame on you
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aemathenge
#5 Posted : Monday, February 22, 2010 2:37:01 PM
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On no you don't!

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Phaoro
#6 Posted : Monday, February 22, 2010 3:01:26 PM
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@ Impunity

That is a big brush you are painting with.
murenj
#7 Posted : Tuesday, February 23, 2010 4:04:49 AM
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this is an interesting angle, howbeit significant. yes. research has already shown that girls end up marrying a father figure and vice versa. the parent of the opposite sex acts as a marking scheme for the qualities one looks for in a marriage partner. by spending time with an elderly married couple, ms arunga may be compensating for the ideal family she never had in childhood. these are some of the factors that make people abandon thier families for little known religious organisations........... but what do i see n this forum? people who are afraid to discuss an issue but would rather resort to emotional blackmail to sweep the issue under the carpet
current
#8 Posted : Tuesday, February 23, 2010 6:09:30 AM
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It is very unfair for you to conclude that this is as a result of the mother being a single parent. In any case men contribute Highly to women being single parents by refusing to take up responsibilities. In any case Esther is 30 yrs old and we can see that the mother has done a gd job by providing her with gd education. Her mess shold not be blamed on the mother.
atiriri
#9 Posted : Tuesday, February 23, 2010 6:19:10 AM
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It is so unfair to judge single mothers harshly. I have seen children who are raised by single mothers and they are role models in the society. Do you want to say that those woman who have abandoned their wifely duties to pray for their dead pastors to ressurect have been brought up by single mothers. Arunga has just been brainwashed, let her stand up for her actions and the mother should not be blamed at all aaaah.
muganda
#10 Posted : Tuesday, February 23, 2010 6:45:03 AM
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@murenj, agree with your challenge on single mothers. But definitely not as it relates to Esther - broad strokes, wrong coat, painter without a clue!!!

That is a family of high achievers and professionals, very well brought up kids by both mother and father. Easy to talk about things when they're distant and remote - not personal and close and relating to oneself.



Now about single mothers, not very different from both parents. The mates people choose can always be linked to upbringing / parent's personality in both cases.

I'd assume children brought up by single parent would generally be more responsible due to challenge. But hats off go to single mothers, they do a fab job!!!
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