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Zanze
#1 Posted : Thursday, March 19, 2015 5:28:05 PM
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Why do men of a supposedly mature age (35 and up):

1. Cheat on their partners (wives/girlfriends/boyfriends)? Is it all a game to you/the person doesn't take care of themselves/or you lost interest?
2. String people along after loosing interest? If you've done this were you afraid of hurting the person/hoping they'd initiate the break-up/didn't care etc?
3. Abandon their kids/pregnant partners? If you've been in this position were you scared of the responsibility/have another relationship/doubt the kid was yours etc?

Since we are not animals why do men act so callously? Women around me are dealing with this all the time and as much as we speculate we need to know what goes on in a mans mind to act in such a way.

To quote a tweet I saw today: "You move from 'niaje msupa?' to 'malaya wewe!' in 2 seconds on these Nairobi streets." - Madam. 😔
Wamunyota
#2 Posted : Thursday, March 19, 2015 5:42:13 PM
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Zanze wrote:
Why do men of a supposedly mature age (35 and up):

1. Cheat on their partners (wives/girlfriends/boyfriends)?
2. String people along after loosing interest?
3. Abandon their kids/pregnant partners?

Since we are not animals why do men act so callously?

Pole sana for being dumped.She just wanted an airport and you gave him the whole country.If you require a shoulder to lean on send an e-mail to wamunyotas@gmail.com.
Hutia Mundu!!
westkate
#3 Posted : Thursday, March 19, 2015 5:55:45 PM
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yes this is whats happening in peoples lives and you will get a lot of advices and also juncks here. everyone is cheating starting with you it's only that you cant say it here because you have been dropped. the best medicine for this scenario is to ravage and be careful everyone is HIV positive may be except you alone. from now be a business partner and forget being a relationship partner.you know the yacht is yours when you get a parking
Swenani
#4 Posted : Thursday, March 19, 2015 6:06:06 PM
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Men do not cheat with other men, they cheat with women;They cheat with women because they have a dick,remove a dick from a man and he will be faithful to you forever!

If your friend or you needs relationship therepist,please ask her to send me an email to wazuafishmonger@gmail.com.
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Zanze
#5 Posted : Thursday, March 19, 2015 6:06:21 PM
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Wamunyota wrote:

Pole sana for being dumped.She just wanted an airport and you gave him the whole country.If you require a shoulder to lean on send an e-mail to wamunyotas@gmail.com.


You are funny ... and no, I was not dumped. I'm in the midst of planning a baby shower for someone who was unceremoniously left with child. It's heartbreaking to say the least.
Ngogoyo
#6 Posted : Thursday, March 19, 2015 6:35:16 PM
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Zanze wrote:
Why do men of a supposedly mature age (35 and up):

1. Cheat on their partners (wives/girlfriends/boyfriends)? Is it all a game to you/the person doesn't take care of themselves/or you lost interest?
2. String people along after loosing interest? If you've done this were you afraid of hurting the person/hoping they'd initiate the break-up/didn't care etc?
3. Abandon their kids/pregnant partners? If you've been in this position were you scared of the responsibility/have another relationship/doubt the kid was yours etc?

Since we are not animals why do men act so callously? Women around me are dealing with this all the time and as much as we speculate we need to know what goes on in a mans mind to act in such a way.

To quote a tweet I saw today: "You move from 'niaje msupa?' to 'malaya wewe!' in 2 seconds on these Nairobi streets." - Madam. 😔


1.Human being are animals...different species
2.Women want equality yet you cant have that...talk of equity
3.wanawake wengi wakiingia wana-act kama wamefika...yaaani nimakinya.
4. There are many responsible and faithful guys out there. The single ones are not thaaat attractive because 'women around you' have a tendency and instinct of loving the bad boys

and ooh thanks for giving us a new phrase

women around you=my friend=you
way=mf=y find y
Mtafiti
#7 Posted : Thursday, March 19, 2015 7:51:39 PM
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westkate wrote:
yes this is whats happening in peoples lives and you will get a lot of advices and also juncks here. everyone is cheating starting with you it's only that you cant say it here because you have been dropped. the best medicine for this scenario is to ravage and be careful everyone is HIV positive may be except you alone. from now be a business partner and forget being a relationship partner.you know the yacht is yours when you get a parking


Hi @ weskate. This "junck" guess "ravages." But you are beautiful! Si ndio?
Zanze
#8 Posted : Thursday, March 19, 2015 8:02:55 PM
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Ngogoyo wrote:


1.Human being are animals...different species
2.Women want equality yet you cant have that...talk of equity
3.wanawake wengi wakiingia wana-act kama wamefika...yaaani nimakinya.
4. There are many responsible and faithful guys out there. The single ones are not thaaat attractive because 'women around you' have a tendency and instinct of loving the bad boys

and ooh thanks for giving us a new phrase

women around you=my friend=you
way=mf=y find y


Haha I should have seen the "my friend" wazua definition coming.

Although we are animals aren't we supposed to process those base instincts at a higher capacity compared to monkeys/dogs/elephants etc?

What does equality have to do with treating someone else with the level of care that you'd want for your sister/daughter to be treated with.

Yes, many of us fall for bad boys but thats not always the case. Some of these fellows out here seem like regular folk until they are not regular anymore!

AlphDoti
#9 Posted : Thursday, March 19, 2015 8:03:50 PM
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@zanze, what were you doing until he reached 35 plus? He probably had someone else by 27 or 30 and you came along and you you didn't realize. He must have made the move to end your rship when you started asking "what is our future"?

NOTE 1: Not all men cheat, get yourself a Muslim man, because the percentage of them cheating is very, very minimal, Less than 0.05%, compared to kina @swenani. The faithful ones over 99.9% tell you the truth, at 35, he is most likely already, if you don't mind being 2nd or 3rd or 4th then he would marry you.

NOTE 2: By the way, only less than 2% of Muslim men have more than 1 wife. 98% have only one wife.
AlphDoti
#10 Posted : Thursday, March 19, 2015 8:09:10 PM
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Joined: 6/20/2008
Posts: 6,275
Location: Kenya
Zanze wrote:
Ngogoyo wrote:


1.Human being are animals...different species
2.Women want equality yet you cant have that...talk of equity
3.wanawake wengi wakiingia wana-act kama wamefika...yaaani nimakinya.
4. There are many responsible and faithful guys out there. The single ones are not thaaat attractive because 'women around you' have a tendency and instinct of loving the bad boys

and ooh thanks for giving us a new phrase

women around you=my friend=you
way=mf=y find y

Haha I should have seen the "my friend" wazua definition coming.

Although we are animals aren't we supposed to process those base instincts at a higher capacity compared to monkeys/dogs/elephants etc?

What does equality have to do with treating someone else with the level of care that you'd want for your sister/daughter to be treated with.

Yes, many of us fall for bad boys but thats not always the case. Some of these fellows out here seem like regular folk until they are not regular anymore!

@zanzne, if you demanded for equality, then that might be the reason for your being dumped. You see there is nothing called equality, talk of equity and justice. Men and women have different complimentary roles. Man and woman are not equal physically, mentally, emotionally etc. Men are protectors of women, the man provides for the woman house, food, clothing, medically. Woman provides love and care for the man and his children. If woman makes her money, then that is her money unless she wants to help the man.

It is a simple as that. If you try to destabilize this natural balance, then you cause imbalance, hence resentment, and eventually split (dumping).
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