Ms Mkenya wrote:@Guka, what happens when a guy wants to marry after divorce from the first wife? Is it different for a lady?
Depends with the reason of divorce.If the woman was at fault,she would be taken back to her parents by WAZEES upon which the family would refund dowry.If there were children involved,they would remain with the man.A new suitor to the lady would pay dowry to the first man where dowry had not been surrendered
Where a man was at fault,he would forfeit dowry,the woman would still be taken back by wazees and the man would forfeit both the dowry and children.
....BUT,there is a ceremony called "gwatura kiande".Once performed,this marks a point of no return.You can separate but you cannot divorce....and this is why you hear some men say of their wives,"Uyu ni wakwa matu na hia" (This one is mine ears and horns)

....I hope this helps.
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