@Westkate, Pole sana. trust is like a glass. once broken its very difficult to mend. The human heart is made of the same vein, luckily enough you can take deliberate effort to mend the relationship.
Divorce is a very very LAST resort,will not only affect you but also your friends, relatives and most importantly your kids. I know what you are going through, but take deliberate effort to mend it, for the sake of your kids, if not you.
All the best and God bless you
"Peace is our profession, War is our business" ...Unknown