@westkate, disclaimer. I'm not married, so I may not understand choices have consequences. Here's my take; forgive the guy. I believe it's hard, personally I'm surrounded by married people, but take divorce as a last resort. From what you bring out, you would want to do something, anything, to make your marriage work. Please do that. You just never know. Don't be quick to divorce. I know I may not make sense having not been there, but having a pal who's going through divorce, do it when there's a point of no return. But, since you believe in God, be careful before you choose the divorce part. You'll get all sorts of advice here, but it will be your life. Don't divorce unless it's the last bit you need to do.

She Says, HE accepted everything....