I don't known much about the luo culture but something has been bothering me since I lost a very close friend of mine and went to his burial in Rongo.
I understand that people must celebrate your life when you are gone but why should you leave the family more miserable?
My friend came from a humble background was the bread winner in the family and he was taking care of his parents and siblings.
When the mourners came to condole the family,they ate all the 'assets' the family had-goats,cows,maize in the name of celebrating his life.The parents couldn't afford to pay the school fees and we had to have a fundraiser as friends to see them through school.
A culture should be done away with if it doesn't add value to society.
Consistency is better than intensity