Apricot wrote:I know the topic was brought up to get a good laugh, but please realize there are many of us silent ones out there that don't fit any of these cliches. And making fun of us is hurtful.
I get it, some of us acquire twengs, adopt peculiar dressing habits and never speak our mother tongue, let alone Kiswahili. When we travel home we tend to think it is cool to show off the same.
But there is many of us who have been gone from home 10 or more years and still speak our mother tongue, dress normally and go un-noticed when in the streets of Nai. Cut us some slack.
And just for fun, if I say I do research, what would you translate that to mean? Impunity niambie.
Apricot, Thank you!!!
Sadly, this is not just what people say for laughs. I have received some very cold treatment from "friends" and even relatives the times I have visited (and I am not the twenging/show-off type) and have learnt to come home with no expectations, do what I need to do then leave peacefully. It is very surprising that when these same people choose to visit, they expect that I will drop everything, show them around while spending the same dollars they imagine I earned doing a menial job. Mwashangaza!!!