it's difficult to handle because both are in the limelight and are accountable to those they minister to.What with a thousand advisers,the media, not forgetting the battle with the conscience,personal feelings,the child's emotional well-being and the word of God which is the basis of her decision making.

Shut out the world, retreat into a quiet place and deal with the pain of betrayal,accept,forgive and move on.Kanyari must be trying hard to woe her again,(wamama wake 310 wamehepa and he must be very lonely.
She then needs to evaluate the pros and cons of her final decision in private before re-surfacing again.

Don't forget this kanyari dude has a refined con woman for a mother and their father's death was shrouded in mystery.
jeeez,a family of psychos obsessed with buying long-distance trucks this one is.

After all is said and done, I feel sorry for Betty Bayo. I really do!

We all make mistakes. Big or small. It's only that in her case, she is in the public eye.

There is also a chance that Prophet Dr. 310 took her for a ride at the beginning. But she must have learnt latter what he does.

The next mistake she made was staying. But she must have had a reason. Good or bad. Maybe she felt it would affect her singing career. Maybe she was afraid of Kanyari - maybe he could hurt her. Maybe he threatened to use the kid to get back at her. Maybe, maybe...

She is making more mistakes by lying about Kanyari's con jobs but she's only human. Her age, her background (must be from a laid back background), the fact that the spotlight is on her, all the manenos online, radio, wherever, she is bound to make a couple of mistakes.

When there is something to hide you do it secretly.The something could be qomen from his church who coild have stopped the wedding, he did not want people who know him to advise her against him , that the mother was in the limelighy for the wrong reasons is not something to keep displaying to the public.and many more......

They were shooting a video for her new song....