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Wife of 23 Yrs cheating on me
Um Sayala
#11 Posted : Monday, November 03, 2014 12:44:10 PM
Rank: Veteran

Joined: 12/17/2010
Posts: 1,163
Location: Sudan
washiku wrote:
Um Sayala wrote:
@washiku, Sorry guys.Did not mean to embarass my campus friend. we are currently struggling with that case, and after reading Kitoto's, felt may be the wazua community could give advice. Will definitely not give out their names. is that in order. This is real.


Look here mate, your intentions may be right, but the approach is very wrong. The point where you started with "Its about a campus friend at whose wedding we were the best couple...." you blew it up. Someone in here will know you or know them, at one point, your friends who chose to trust you with their lives will come to know. Its a very bad breach of trust. If you value the kind of 'advise' "WE" give here on those fish(y) threads, then go ahead and use a better way. Otherwise, just change your mind and save your friends the embarrassment, unless they authorize you to do it here. The day people chose you as their best couple, you kinda sign a confidentiality clause to keep their business confidential. If at any one point you might require help in handling their issues, a lot of wisdom have to be applied so as not to jeopardize the sanctity of their relationship. Oooh my, I wish people could treat that 'best couple' duty with the seriousness it deserves.

Well I hear you. But I have already covered my tracks even with that statement in red. But im really hoping I will help the couple.
"Peace is our profession, War is our business" ...Unknown
washiku
#12 Posted : Monday, November 03, 2014 12:50:49 PM
Rank: Chief

Joined: 5/9/2007
Posts: 13,095
Um Sayala wrote:
washiku wrote:
Um Sayala wrote:
@washiku, Sorry guys.Did not mean to embarass my campus friend. we are currently struggling with that case, and after reading Kitoto's, felt may be the wazua community could give advice. Will definitely not give out their names. is that in order. This is real.


Look here mate, your intentions may be right, but the approach is very wrong. The point where you started with "Its about a campus friend at whose wedding we were the best couple...." you blew it up. Someone in here will know you or know them, at one point, your friends who chose to trust you with their lives will come to know. Its a very bad breach of trust. If you value the kind of 'advise' "WE" give here on those fish(y) threads, then go ahead and use a better way. Otherwise, just change your mind and save your friends the embarrassment, unless they authorize you to do it here. The day people chose you as their best couple, you kinda sign a confidentiality clause to keep their business confidential. If at any one point you might require help in handling their issues, a lot of wisdom have to be applied so as not to jeopardize the sanctity of their relationship. Oooh my, I wish people could treat that 'best couple' duty with the seriousness it deserves.

Well I hear you. But I have already covered my tracks even with that statement in red. But im really hoping I will help the couple.


All the best. I pray that you succeed and may they live happily ever after. There is nothing as fulfilling as a happy marriage. Pray for them too.
Impunity
#13 Posted : Monday, November 03, 2014 12:54:53 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 3/2/2009
Posts: 26,331
Location: Masada
Um Sayala wrote:
I bring this because we(my wife and I) were best couple in a wedding of my Campus friend, and of late we've been trying to reconcile our friends but its proving very difficult.
Will post his case shortly


Wazuan friend, okay!

smile
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Um Sayala
#14 Posted : Monday, November 03, 2014 1:11:53 PM
Rank: Veteran

Joined: 12/17/2010
Posts: 1,163
Location: Sudan
Impunity wrote:
Um Sayala wrote:
I bring this because we(my wife and I) were best couple in a wedding of my Campus friend, and of late we've been trying to reconcile our friends but its proving very difficult.
Will post his case shortly


Wazuan friend, okay!

smile

@Impunity,Not really. I would simply have registered another username if it was the 'wazuan our friends'. But i chose to come as Um
"Peace is our profession, War is our business" ...Unknown
jaggernaut
#15 Posted : Monday, November 03, 2014 1:21:08 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 10/9/2008
Posts: 5,389
Um Sayala wrote:
washiku wrote:
Um Sayala wrote:
@washiku, Sorry guys.Did not mean to embarass my campus friend. we are currently struggling with that case, and after reading Kitoto's, felt may be the wazua community could give advice. Will definitely not give out their names. is that in order. This is real.


Look here mate, your intentions may be right, but the approach is very wrong. The point where you started with "Its about a campus friend at whose wedding we were the best couple...." you blew it up. Someone in here will know you or know them, at one point, your friends who chose to trust you with their lives will come to know. Its a very bad breach of trust. If you value the kind of 'advise' "WE" give here on those fish(y) threads, then go ahead and use a better way. Otherwise, just change your mind and save your friends the embarrassment, unless they authorize you to do it here. The day people chose you as their best couple, you kinda sign a confidentiality clause to keep their business confidential. If at any one point you might require help in handling their issues, a lot of wisdom have to be applied so as not to jeopardize the sanctity of their relationship. Oooh my, I wish people could treat that 'best couple' duty with the seriousness it deserves.

Well I hear you. But I have already covered my tracks even with that statement in red. But im really hoping I will help the couple.


Weka sasa. We are really waiting for this juicy storo.
butterflyke
#16 Posted : Monday, November 03, 2014 1:32:32 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 5/1/2010
Posts: 3,024
Location: Hapa
McReggae wrote:
washiku wrote:
Um Sayala wrote:
I bring this because we(my wife and I) were best couple in a wedding of my Campus friend, and of late we've been trying to reconcile our friends but its proving very difficult.
Will post his case shortly


I hope you wont post their issues on the internet. I wonder why they chose you for a best couple if you can have the audacity to share their issues with the whole world. Internet is never a secret world, one day they will know the person they trusted with their secrets told all of it to unknown people. Please dont share with us. Help them if you can to sort out their issues.


Agreed, that would be irresponsible!!!


I agree, don't be short sighted, hii dunia ya Internet ni ndogo sana
Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee. - Muhammad Ali🐝
Um Sayala
#17 Posted : Monday, November 03, 2014 2:24:02 PM
Rank: Veteran

Joined: 12/17/2010
Posts: 1,163
Location: Sudan
I have since withdrawn. Now let me ask a general question.
If you find out that your wife is cheating on you. And there is evidence,love sms, mpesa transactions etc, etc. what do you do?
"Peace is our profession, War is our business" ...Unknown
Wamunyota
#18 Posted : Monday, November 03, 2014 2:24:08 PM
Rank: Veteran

Joined: 6/23/2014
Posts: 1,652
jaggernaut wrote:
Um Sayala wrote:
washiku wrote:
Um Sayala wrote:
@washiku, Sorry guys.Did not mean to embarass my campus friend. we are currently struggling with that case, and after reading Kitoto's, felt may be the wazua community could give advice. Will definitely not give out their names. is that in order. This is real.


Look here mate, your intentions may be right, but the approach is very wrong. The point where you started with "Its about a campus friend at whose wedding we were the best couple...." you blew it up. Someone in here will know you or know them, at one point, your friends who chose to trust you with their lives will come to know. Its a very bad breach of trust. If you value the kind of 'advise' "WE" give here on those fish(y) threads, then go ahead and use a better way. Otherwise, just change your mind and save your friends the embarrassment, unless they authorize you to do it here. The day people chose you as their best couple, you kinda sign a confidentiality clause to keep their business confidential. If at any one point you might require help in handling their issues, a lot of wisdom have to be applied so as not to jeopardize the sanctity of their relationship. Oooh my, I wish people could treat that 'best couple' duty with the seriousness it deserves.

Well I hear you. But I have already covered my tracks even with that statement in red. But im really hoping I will help the couple.


Weka sasa. We are really waiting for this juicy storo.

smile smile
Hutia Mundu!!
Wamunyota
#19 Posted : Monday, November 03, 2014 2:27:56 PM
Rank: Veteran

Joined: 6/23/2014
Posts: 1,652
Um Sayala wrote:
I have since withdrawn. Now let me ask a general question.
If you find out that your wife is cheating on you. And there is evidence,love sms, mpesa transactions etc, etc. what do you do?

Sasa wewe Um Sayala you promise to give us a juicy storo and then you leave us hanging nktShame on you
Hutia Mundu!!
jaggernaut
#20 Posted : Monday, November 03, 2014 2:32:01 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 10/9/2008
Posts: 5,389
Um Sayala wrote:
I have since withdrawn. Now let me ask a general question.
If you find out that your wife is cheating on you. And there is evidence,love sms, mpesa transactions etc, etc. what do you do?


Divorce. It's well stated that adultery is ground for divorce.
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