Most of you have missed the point by a mile! The nod, mostly used by African Americans, is a way of showing brotherhood and acceptance in a society that has continously rejected and degraded them. After a long day of dealing with racism, both overt and covert, that nod is usually a gesture of togetherness, of defiance against a society that constantly tells you you are inferior. You wouldnt get it until you walked a mile in an AA's shoes.