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MKWASI
#21 Posted : Wednesday, October 15, 2014 12:43:22 PM
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jaggernaut wrote:
radio wrote:
No wonder the guy has been so combative. Kumbe it's the domes at home!


True. There are rumours that someone has been "ploughing his field" huko nyumbani while he is away with baba busy okoaring kenya, hence his drastic action against the wife.


d'oh! d'oh! d'oh!
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seppuku
#22 Posted : Wednesday, October 15, 2014 12:50:01 PM
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What, pray tell, causes two people who start out in love come to this level of resentment? Ni nini hufanyikia watu wakioana?

Sure there are marriages out there that hold up decently, but there doesn't seem to be that many examples. Or maybe it's just me.

I think something is seriously wrong with the entire sociocultural production line, especially as relates to marriages. And I don't think it is a new problem. I do not believe that couples were happier in 1914 than they are in 2014, on average. There just wasn't as much "speaking out" going on then.

And marriages are the foundation of the family, and the family the foundation society. So this is a big deal.

But maybe even that logic is warped. It's not even clear what a family is anymore. Monogamy. Polygamy. Polyandry. Homosexual relationships. They all seem to have equal potential for misery.

And people change. Maybe they don't. Maybe they just marry the wrong people. What's the deal with getting committed to a single individual for the majority of one's life anyway - complete with religious and state enforcement? To raise children? It sure doesn't seem to be for happiness because people aren't encouraged to ship out if the union hits the rocks. Isn't there a chance that this very logic is fundamentally flawed?

You would think I know!
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MKWASI
#23 Posted : Wednesday, October 15, 2014 1:09:19 PM
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Lately he has been quiet...., I thought he was busy collecting signatures.
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mkenyan
#24 Posted : Wednesday, October 15, 2014 1:14:28 PM
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jaggernaut wrote:
Impunity wrote:
I like her hair very much. Looks fresh and healthy.
She doesn't look like she starves.
And to imagine she leaves alone in that house, oh my!


The rich also cry. The irony of life. You find so many unhappy people in the leafy suburbs, and yet there are very many happy people of ordinary means, even in slums like kibera. Sometimes it's more money, more problems...

now if only these people were not wasting their money in doing things to please their wives like picking them up in limos etc and instead investing in ka-plotis, these unhappiness won't be...oh wait....
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Swenani
#25 Posted : Wednesday, October 15, 2014 2:08:27 PM
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seppuku wrote:
What, pray tell, causes two people who start out in love come to this level of resentment? Ni nini hufanyikia watu wakioana?

Sure there are marriages out there that hold up decently, but there doesn't seem to be that many examples. Or maybe it's just me.

I think something is seriously wrong with the entire sociocultural production line, especially as relates to marriages. And I don't think it is a new problem. I do not believe that couples were happier in 1914 than they are in 2014, on average. There just wasn't as much "speaking out" going on then.

And marriages are the foundation of the family, and the family the foundation society. So this is a big deal.

But maybe even that logic is warped. It's not even clear what a family is anymore. Monogamy. Polygamy. Polyandry. Homosexual relationships. They all seem to have equal potential for misery.

And people change. Maybe they don't. Maybe they just marry the wrong people. What's the deal with getting committed to a single individual for the majority of one's life anyway - complete with religious and state enforcement? To raise children? It sure doesn't seem to be for happiness because people aren't encouraged to ship out if the union hits the rocks. Isn't there a chance that this very logic is fundamentally flawed?

You would think I know!


All marital problems revolve around sex.

According to Research done in India(Ubaba 2014) and general experience has proven that men's sexually appetite is usually very high in 20'sand early 30's and declines as they hit 40 while for women late 30's and 40-50''s is the peak for their sexually appetite;But since husbands are unable to cater for their wives sexual needs during these period, they then resort to dating young girls(with the hope that their sex appetite will be back) who in turn are only interested in the man because of his chums while the wife will usually find a kachabalilet(probably a houseboy due to unavailability of the husband this is also the period when marriage undergoes turmoil).

The kachabalilet will properly screw the wife like a pencil sharpener and this when the women start being stubborn to their husbands(I really do not why sexually starved women and properly screwed women all exhibit same type of arrogance and stubbornness)
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Euge
#26 Posted : Wednesday, October 15, 2014 3:30:08 PM
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Impunity
#27 Posted : Wednesday, October 15, 2014 5:05:51 PM
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mkenyan wrote:
jaggernaut wrote:
Impunity wrote:
I like her hair very much. Looks fresh and healthy.
She doesn't look like she starves.
And to imagine she leaves alone in that house, oh my!


The rich also cry. The irony of life. You find so many unhappy people in the leafy suburbs, and yet there are very many happy people of ordinary means, even in slums like kibera. Sometimes it's more money, more problems...

now if only these people were not wasting their money in doing things to please their wives like picking them up in limos etc and instead investing in ka-plotis, these unhappiness won't be...oh wait....


Proti here, proti pale, proti kila mahali....and more prots leads more money n more troubles in life.
Portfolio: Sold
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Angelica _ann
#28 Posted : Wednesday, October 15, 2014 5:25:36 PM
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Team proti aka invest ......... see the outcome!
In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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mnjoro
#29 Posted : Wednesday, October 15, 2014 5:33:09 PM
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Angelica _ann wrote:
Team proti aka invest ......... see the outcome!

Applause Applause Applause Applause couldn't be more right
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MKWASI
#30 Posted : Wednesday, October 15, 2014 5:57:56 PM
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Very sad....I does not it reflects us who live in leafy suburbs or us in the slums.
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