Reminds me of a pastor in coast who three years ago said that the present day kenyan women are "unmarriable" aaaand aucho!!! He drew total condemnation from all corners of the country for telling the truth that ladies did not want to hear...

Your questions usually have no answers
Here is one angle: University is where romantic love burns fiercest, ideals are pure, goals lofty, responsibilities light, optimism great, energy in plenty. Once out of school life hits you like an oncoming train. This is where both men and women, but especially women really begin to adjust their conceptions about life. Innocence is lost, and love/relationships become merely another milestone to be navigated; balance of gains and losses, pain and happiness; jadedness; resignation; disappointment.

Its ironic....men are happy that women nowadays drop their panties after very little persuasion, and then sad that they can't find wives.
Kwani where do wives come from? Is it not from the same generation of girls born, grow and become sexual liberals...times have changed, and jamaas should put to rest the idea that will find a virgin who knows how to keep a house and will make a good wife and mother...with all your conquests, you are 'eating' somebody's potential future wife, other men are currently eating your potential future wife, everyone is eating or being eaten by everyone else, and for those who are already married (the thirties and late twenties) and think they are not afected by the decay, your current wife, with the cunning of the devil, is probably currently being eaten by her colleague (corporate teambuildings, anyone ).
Its widespread societal malaise and few can escape from it

"currently being eaten by her colleague" this is very true and happening everyday.With this moral decay,most people are swearing that incase of a divorce they would never remarry.

How many of your colleagues have you eaten in gachie?

Aaaaand yet every Sunday we watch happy couples getting married on the wedding show.

Those are the lucky few like me who got their spouses/spices while in uni/colle

And are there good husbands too? These bad girls who are all over 7s doing things, whom do they do things with?

It's not possible to have 'only relativism'. Think about it. For there to relativity or 'subsets', there must be a universal set. In this case the universal set is 'humanity'. And the application is that, different cultures share a common mythology.

For 'me', a good man or woman, is one who has attained psychological and spiritual maturity. Humanity has common and shared knowledge on how a human develops, and the choice of solution design.

One problem we are facing is that we are no longer designing solutions consciously and in an enlightened fashion. We are dead.

Our masks are frozen.

If this is sound advice then we are corrupted. We have eyes but can't see, and ears and can't hear.

To read between the lines is to open your inner eye that sees the invisible. To see the difference between man and mannequin.