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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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Seems @Alphadoti is a persona non grata in wazua. @Ecstacy,give @Alphadoti space bwana If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/3/2008 Posts: 106
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PeterReborn wrote:urstill wrote:Why are there so many single mothers? Single by choice and other factors not associated to death. What does this say about our society? What kind of society should we be ready for in the near future? This is a very difficult question and no single answer would comprehensively respond to this. The society has played a very big role in this. a)There has been significant change in perception by the society.Previously,single mothers were treated as outcasts and as people or low moral standing.The family would disown you and this was big shame to the family.Even in the Bible the reason why Mary the mother of Jesus left after she was informed by angel Gabriel that she will get a son is because it was unacceptable for a woman to have a child out of wedlock. b)It is now very easy to have sex.U just need to go to a club,buy a few drinks to a woman and Volaah!! you have a chips funga. c)Women empowerment.Our women are now very educated.They are well paid,driving good cars and are able to make decisions like whom she should have sex with.Traditionally women had sex to please men but with the empowerment a woman needs to also have satisfying sex.She wants to experience the big O. d)We have irresponsible men.Due to the women empowerment the traditional roles of men have changed.We have men who wants to share duties like paying rent,food,school fees etc.This brings a sense of disrespect and conflict because some of these roles should be done by the man as the head of the family. The guy could be 40 and still stays with his parents and doesnt pay any bills.His salary is purely for alcohol and entertainment.When he gets married,he doesnt know what responsibility is. Point d above so u want to say that you live with a woman who earns an income but should not participate in any of the said roles even though she can afford to! One's first step in wisdom is to question everything - and one's last is to come to terms with everything
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/26/2008 Posts: 4,449
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Swenani wrote:Seems @Alphadoti is a persona non grata in wazua.
@Ecstacy,give @Alphadoti space bwana bbuh
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 1/3/2014 Posts: 1,063
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mburuke wrote:PeterReborn wrote:urstill wrote:Why are there so many single mothers? Single by choice and other factors not associated to death. What does this say about our society? What kind of society should we be ready for in the near future? This is a very difficult question and no single answer would comprehensively respond to this. The society has played a very big role in this. a)There has been significant change in perception by the society.Previously,single mothers were treated as outcasts and as people or low moral standing.The family would disown you and this was big shame to the family.Even in the Bible the reason why Mary the mother of Jesus left after she was informed by angel Gabriel that she will get a son is because it was unacceptable for a woman to have a child out of wedlock. b)It is now very easy to have sex.U just need to go to a club,buy a few drinks to a woman and Volaah!! you have a chips funga. c)Women empowerment.Our women are now very educated.They are well paid,driving good cars and are able to make decisions like whom she should have sex with.Traditionally women had sex to please men but with the empowerment a woman needs to also have satisfying sex.She wants to experience the big O. d)We have irresponsible men.Due to the women empowerment the traditional roles of men have changed.We have men who wants to share duties like paying rent,food,school fees etc.This brings a sense of disrespect and conflict because some of these roles should be done by the man as the head of the family. The guy could be 40 and still stays with his parents and doesnt pay any bills.His salary is purely for alcohol and entertainment.When he gets married,he doesnt know what responsibility is. Point d above so u want to say that you live with a woman who earns an income but should not participate in any of the said roles even though she can afford to! @mburuke nope.Regardless of how much your woman earns,there are those responsibilities that a man should take care of such as paying rent and school fees.The moment you allow your woman to take care of your business is the beginning of your downfall. Consistency is better than intensity
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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PeterReborn wrote:mburuke wrote:PeterReborn wrote:urstill wrote:Why are there so many single mothers? Single by choice and other factors not associated to death. What does this say about our society? What kind of society should we be ready for in the near future? This is a very difficult question and no single answer would comprehensively respond to this. The society has played a very big role in this. a)There has been significant change in perception by the society.Previously,single mothers were treated as outcasts and as people or low moral standing.The family would disown you and this was big shame to the family.Even in the Bible the reason why Mary the mother of Jesus left after she was informed by angel Gabriel that she will get a son is because it was unacceptable for a woman to have a child out of wedlock. b)It is now very easy to have sex.U just need to go to a club,buy a few drinks to a woman and Volaah!! you have a chips funga. c)Women empowerment.Our women are now very educated.They are well paid,driving good cars and are able to make decisions like whom she should have sex with.Traditionally women had sex to please men but with the empowerment a woman needs to also have satisfying sex.She wants to experience the big O. d)We have irresponsible men.Due to the women empowerment the traditional roles of men have changed.We have men who wants to share duties like paying rent,food,school fees etc.This brings a sense of disrespect and conflict because some of these roles should be done by the man as the head of the family. The guy could be 40 and still stays with his parents and doesnt pay any bills.His salary is purely for alcohol and entertainment.When he gets married,he doesnt know what responsibility is. Point d above so u want to say that you live with a woman who earns an income but should not participate in any of the said roles even though she can afford to! @mburuke nope.Regardless of how much your woman earns,there are those responsibilities that a man should take care of such as paying rent and school fees.The moment you allow your woman to take care of your business is the beginning of your downfall. Ditto, In fact,regardless of how much your woman earns,you still need to give her money for salon,chama,shopping and chama. Otherwise,if you expect her to contribute then weweni wale mnakuja kwa nyumba 9;30pm unapata chakula iko kwa microwave. I believe that a man should be simba wa nyumba.Ig i come home 3.00 am,she has to wake up and prepare ugali for me(not warm food) and watch me eat Women need to be conditioned(Washiku you need to read this) If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 1/3/2014 Posts: 1,063
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Swenani wrote:PeterReborn wrote:mburuke wrote:PeterReborn wrote:urstill wrote:Why are there so many single mothers? Single by choice and other factors not associated to death. What does this say about our society? What kind of society should we be ready for in the near future? This is a very difficult question and no single answer would comprehensively respond to this. The society has played a very big role in this. a)There has been significant change in perception by the society.Previously,single mothers were treated as outcasts and as people or low moral standing.The family would disown you and this was big shame to the family.Even in the Bible the reason why Mary the mother of Jesus left after she was informed by angel Gabriel that she will get a son is because it was unacceptable for a woman to have a child out of wedlock. b)It is now very easy to have sex.U just need to go to a club,buy a few drinks to a woman and Volaah!! you have a chips funga. c)Women empowerment.Our women are now very educated.They are well paid,driving good cars and are able to make decisions like whom she should have sex with.Traditionally women had sex to please men but with the empowerment a woman needs to also have satisfying sex.She wants to experience the big O. d)We have irresponsible men.Due to the women empowerment the traditional roles of men have changed.We have men who wants to share duties like paying rent,food,school fees etc.This brings a sense of disrespect and conflict because some of these roles should be done by the man as the head of the family. The guy could be 40 and still stays with his parents and doesnt pay any bills.His salary is purely for alcohol and entertainment.When he gets married,he doesnt know what responsibility is. Point d above so u want to say that you live with a woman who earns an income but should not participate in any of the said roles even though she can afford to! @mburuke nope.Regardless of how much your woman earns,there are those responsibilities that a man should take care of such as paying rent and school fees.The moment you allow your woman to take care of your business is the beginning of your downfall. Ditto, In fact,regardless of how much your woman earns,you still need to give her money for salon,chama,shopping and chama. Otherwise,if you expect her to contribute then weweni wale mnakuja kwa nyumba 9;30pm unapata chakula iko kwa microwave. I believe that a man should be simba wa nyumba.Ig i come home 3.00 am,she has to wake up and prepare ugali for me(not warm food) and watch me eat Women need to be conditioned(Washiku you need to read this)  Consistency is better than intensity
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Rank: User Joined: 9/6/2013 Posts: 1,446 Location: In a house
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"The course of true anything never does run smooth. ~Samuel Butler. If you have been on BB or are a member, am sure you will know " Nobody ever walks alone" it's always has certainly been members. Today our very own needs your support. Jackson Njeru is a wanted man to dare touch where everyone has been so careful to tread on . We need your financial support to help with follow up and miscellaneous. It takes money, to waddle through. If, you are in a position to support with whatever amount please send it to his line on 0700931621, Our target is over 60k and every little adds up. Long live comrade power, long live DBK.
Someone's life is endangered for their selfless deed of trying to reach out. Anyone trolling here will be BANNED. If you have nothing to say, don't do it here. Having said that I believe everyone is on here at least because they can identify with the issues being addressed here, or perhaps keeping a keen eye if their names, better others, brothers, sisters etc do ever pop up? Either way, let's keep civil please. Regards"
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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/21/2013 Posts: 2,841 Location: Here
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urstill1 wrote:
"The course of true anything never does run smooth. ~Samuel Butler. If you have been on BB or are a member, am sure you will know " Nobody ever walks alone" it's always has certainly been members. Today our very own needs your support. Jackson Njeru is a wanted man to dare touch where everyone has been so careful to tread on . We need your financial support to help with follow up and miscellaneous. It takes money, to waddle through. If, you are in a position to support with whatever amount please send it to his line on 0700931621, Our target is over 60k and every little adds up. Long live comrade power, long live DBK.
Someone's life is endangered for their selfless deed of trying to reach out. Anyone trolling here will be BANNED. If you have nothing to say, don't do it here. Having said that I believe everyone is on here at least because they can identify with the issues being addressed here, or perhaps keeping a keen eye if their names, better others, brothers, sisters etc do ever pop up? Either way, let's keep civil please. Regards"
 Life is like playing a violin solo in public and learning the instrument as one goes on.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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Swenani wrote:
I believe that a man should be simba wa nyumba.Ig i come home 3.00 am,she has to wake up and prepare ugali for me(not warm food) and watch me eat
Women need to be conditioned(Washiku you need to read this)
You should go back to your ancestors where you belong. This is slavery in the name of God knows what. It doesn't even have any basis in the bible or whatever human traditions. 1.What is a married man doing outside till 3.00am and in Nbo? Only dogs and thugs are allowed out at that hour.  2.Why risk your life walking/driving home at night instead of sleeping in a hotel? 3.What kind of food is this that requires a long painful stare to swallow? Please Note: Your wife is not your slave but a friend and a lover, so treat her the same way you'd like to be treated, with dignity!. And fyi.Married men are the worst adulterers. The chances of being hit on by a married man are triple that of a single guy. It gets worse when they attempt to marry more women because they end up creating Akuku Village. Lust begats lust.
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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urstill1 wrote:
"The course of true anything never does run smooth. ~Samuel Butler. If you have been on BB or are a member, am sure you will know " Nobody ever walks alone" it's always has certainly been members. Today our very own needs your support. Jackson Njeru is a wanted man to dare touch where everyone has been so careful to tread on . We need your financial support to help with follow up and miscellaneous. It takes money, to waddle through. If, you are in a position to support with whatever amount please send it to his line on 0700931621, Our target is over 60k and every little adds up. Long live comrade power, long live DBK.
Someone's life is endangered for their selfless deed of trying to reach out. Anyone trolling here will be BANNED. If you have nothing to say, don't do it here. Having said that I believe everyone is on here at least because they can identify with the issues being addressed here, or perhaps keeping a keen eye if their names, better others, brothers, sisters etc do ever pop up? Either way, let's keep civil please. Regards"
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