@wilyum,
This is true mara dat dat. Wacha tu nisifungue roho sana.
Lakini Rwandese are good at it, and they know watu wengine may not know how exactly they do it.
So the lady would guide you the first first days, wewe unalala tu ukiangalia juu. Maji ndoo mzima kwa belly.
But when u learn the art!!!!
Wacha tu.
"Peace is our profession, War is our business" ...Unknown