Is there a disease or affliction, or condition whose root cause isn't the lack of love, and whose cure isn't love?

I love love and falling inlove, it does feel good, it feel better than bonus and ROI

Love goes beyond pain and pleasure. From the physical to the spiritual, the greatest lover is master over the orgasm.

I was a young boy when I got my first orgasm. My anticipation of a second one were filled with the question, 'uchungu itafika saa ngapi?' Painful pleasure. After that my psychological life hinged on this pleasurable circuit. Love, being connected to pleasure became sexual and orgasmic. Any pain was met by a desire to reactivate my pleasure circuits. Stress increasing 'libido'.

That's how one builds a prison from within. And proceeds to imprison the other. For now, like in my case, I had to look for ways to satisfy my brain circuit needs. And because my brain isn't 'unique' other circuits that fit could be found. And hence a false concept of love reinforced. The theme of false love is self satisfaction. Relationships are turned into strategies of self satisfaction and trade offs.

True love on the other hand must involve a constant rewiring of my brain networks. Avoidance of any addiction and expectations. Indifference and equanimity.

Thus love making is quite the opposite of what many think. It's about:

1. Mutual healing and circuit changing in the brain

2. Enlightenment

3. Transformation

4. Creation- physical to spiritual

5. Nurturing of the creation

6. Meditation

That is, love making goes beyond coitus. Love making is a powerful tool even in education, sports, organization design and sustainance, and all interpersonal relations.

Loving your neighbor as yourself is difficult not because it's unnatural but because the techniques for such a practice haven't been taught to most of us.

oh lord, make it easy.

@Kysse, why does a child cry?