Dis you graduate to cooling it off ama kitu ilikataa kusimama?

@Rahatupu am not a socket.The question is how sustainable is Coitus?It calls for discipline and understanding.Sometimes the couple is overcome by excitement.The other factor is if both or one of you is drunk kutoa inaweza kuwa shida.

The 27% are people like you.....a second guy while the 73% are people like us

Anyway,for withdrawal to be effective,you should first learn how to satisfy your woman as well as know when she is about to come.

Otherwise, you will try withdrawing and thus when you realize that you woman is strong enough.especially kama umeshikwa makasi style

@Wamunyota, kama wewe si socket please, trust your socket to make the best decision on implant vs coil dilemma.
@Swenani, makasi style ni kali sana all the same, with practice the perfect timing for withdrawal would be when you (plug) are in control (assuming socket has had her O moment), sema spraying above the waist.....

me and my mama use orange juice for FP, tht is, instead of coitus, we drink orange juice.

So you drink her juice and she drinks yours?

Wazuans have jokes!

Both are OK. Depends on what your wife prefers.

You need an expert MCH/FP nurse to do both though. An implant (Jadelle) done badly will be uncomfortable to her (can be felt at the upper arm). An IUD placed wrongly can be displaced (causing pregnancy). So as a man always feel for the strings that hang out of the cervix during landing (Ehhh you have to have a pinetree of adequate length to feel them . Or use a finger.)

Some IUDs and all implants are hormonal, so consider the effects of hormones on her (if she has conditions such as obesity, diabetes, hypertension, allergy to hormones, she smokes, migraine headaches etc then she cannot use hormonal contraceptives).

There must be an FP clinic near you that does FP counselling for couples.

You could also try vasectomy.

Haujui venye makasi inakaa?

Thanks @Bykhovets.We have an appointment with her Gyna this week.Hio ya vasectomy hapana.You never know