Bigchick wrote:AlphDoti wrote:sheri wrote:PeterReborn wrote:Muheani wrote:sheri wrote:Ha! Ha! Ha! guys, guys, like seriously some of you wazuan's have more than three kids with different women and still married. stop the drama. kwanza nyinyi munaoa wale wako na mtoto mujue hata wa pili na watatu sio wenyu.
That is deep
sasa should we marry single mothers or mothers of dead babies?
Hamutaki ukweli wanaume na nyinyi changamkeni.
The solution for this malaya wife is simple: divorce her and marry another one, possibly a virgin if this man can find one.
Going forward? The husband can choose to provide for the children, if he wishes.
Ni hayo tu.
Me thinks there is more to this story.What is the genesis of the issue.We are picking it up from the court level where the man wants custody.
Having said that I want to say that I am an advocate of talks in families.He will marry another one yes but for what gain.If its to spite the mama....I think she will be least bothered given the circumstances.Its unfortunate that this has gone public so containing it will be difficult.
If the first born is 15 and assuming he married at 25, then the guy is 40.Not too late but still an uphill task starting a family at that age.15 years of emotional and financial investment is not easy to just let go.He may not be the biological father but he is the father those kids know and that counts.
Finally I think the woman is lying but if its true that man has a problem.He should have discovered.Kwani he has no instincts or that sixth sense that says iko shida.
@ alphadoti
virgins are hard to come by these days unless you wanna venture to below 10 years of age...
@Bigchick
I can guarantee you one thing madam...the malaya wife must have been caught peupe kimachomacho may be with another father-of-her-kid to be and her defence was mainly to hurt the man so that the man could start and keep running from her...It happens all the time...
Now, the problem is the kids. Their family perception was destroyed by their mother...talk of children being sucked into the parents conflicts...
...besides, the presence of a safe alone does not signify that there is money inside...