Let me throw a spanner in the works.
What akina swenani othelo and others are talking about is called NOVELTY.. the new.. mysterious.. exciting vs the FAMILIAR.
NOVELTY is what makes the porn industry grow exponentially.
The problem they are having in KU is a case in point.
An abundant almost equal male to female ratio.. yet the sewer system is jammed..... NOVELTY.
So who is the bigger sinner ?
The irresponsible chap who in a fit of lust zooms into koinange and brings home the fish to eat
or
The buttoned up chap who in a fit of lust logs on to some porn sites and masturbates to images and videos.
Tafakari hayo.