"prefer to stay single" is a very wide description. If a woman finds her husband to be cheating on her the day before the wedding, should she call it off, and if she does, will she have 'preferred to stay single' while if she does not call it off, will she have 'preferred not to stay single'. I am an advocate of marriage and families. I have always said that marriages where women are wise and strong and are given their voice and co-decision making abilities are the marriages that will bring up the next generation of stable families, stable children stable grandchildren. But i do not advocate for relationships of servitude, master-servant,constant risk and exposure to HIV and battery type of relationships. I believe that a woman who decides to wait for yes the ellusive Mr right waits, she'l be better off than rushing into the arms of a man who couldnt care less about her but who she's willing to put up with because she wants (rather society makes her want) to be married.

They still get that otherwise how do they get pregnant?

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Beautiful ????? handsome ,maybe.

Culture is changing. Relationships are being defined. The man's role, the woman's role is changing. Is the economic system changing? Then ideas are also changing. But how should we understand, nay, approach this change?

Even morality is changing. How can we direct this change? Let's not kill the messenger, let's look at this matter openly.

Let me illustrate. With high unemployment rates, women have deviced methods of taking care of their children that even men have failed to match. Chamas, savings and austerity, hard labor. Traditional opportunities like drivers, mechanics, cobblers, are fast flowing to the women. What are the men to do? How's this affecting the family? How is globalization changing the family?

There's also room for dialogue here.

Swenani,

Are you married?