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My Daughter has ZERO Appetite. What to do?
karqui
#21 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 3:56:09 PM
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Obi 1 Kanobi wrote:
You can also allow her to constantly snack, will keep the sugar levels high.

If you go to a nutrionist, they will tell you to let her eat at her own time, problem is as a parent, its dificult to just ignore them as they go hungry or develop bad habits.

Keep trying and good luck

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@kiwaru, i admit your advice is so correct and geniune.

never ever ever let snacking be a way of life to a kid. observe specific hours to eat, this makes the metabolism take effect without over burdening the system hence no appetite

that's how i do it and it has worked
Euge
#22 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 4:02:46 PM
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masukuma wrote:
I used to be that way! I never had appetite to eat... my mum tried everything... never picked up. My younger brother used to eat part of my meals. I hated meat e.t.c. BUT THERE CAME A TIME!! I was champion eater!! I finished 12 chapos, would eat bread like no ones business. When we went for family gatherings People actually thought 'hatulishwi kwetu' due to how i would eat. I am sure i have eaten close if not more than 2 kgs of meat at ole polos in one seating. So... if I am anything to go by - SHE WILL BE FINE!!!


Okay. Encourage a lot of outdoor activities such as cycling, swimming etc.... That should make her ask for food.
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Kusadikika
#23 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 4:04:47 PM
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sanity wrote:
Dont overwork yourself.the kid is ok.that is a very common problem .If she's not sick,note that she will never allow herself to starve.avoid nagging her to eat.it will only make her worse.Weka chakula kwa meza and ignore her...not once or twice...make it a habit.observe her from the corner of your eye.And if she is an only child,as adviced earlier,tafuta mwingine. .


I agree completely. If the child is at an age where you can communicate, I believe clear, firm, consistent communication is key. Invite her to eat and offer the meal. She is free to accept the invitation to eat or to decline it. If she declines, do not make a fuss about it. Let her clearly know that the next offer for food will be at the next mealtime. In between meals if she complains of irritability, tiredness, ninaumwa etc be quick to remind her that that is what happens to someone who does not eat. Do not offer anything in between meals, she must wait till the next meal time. Good luck. Never let a child think she is doing you a favour by eating. The sooner she realises that she eats for her own good the better both of you will be.
bkismat
#24 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 4:24:56 PM
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Kusadikika wrote:
sanity wrote:
Dont overwork yourself.the kid is ok.that is a very common problem .If she's not sick,note that she will never allow herself to starve.avoid nagging her to eat.it will only make her worse.Weka chakula kwa meza and ignore her...not once or twice...make it a habit.observe her from the corner of your eye.And if she is an only child,as adviced earlier,tafuta mwingine. .


I agree completely. If the child is at an age where you can communicate, I believe clear, firm, consistent communication is key. Invite her to eat and offer the meal. She is free to accept the invitation to eat or to decline it. If she declines, do not make a fuss about it. Let her clearly know that the next offer for food will be at the next mealtime. In between meals if she complains of irritability, tiredness, ninaumwa etc be quick to remind her that that is what happens to someone who does not eat. Do not offer anything in between meals, she must wait till the next meal time. Good luck. Never let a child think she is doing you a favour by eating. The sooner she realises that she eats for her own good the better both of you will be.Applause Applause

It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt...
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masukuma
#25 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 4:45:18 PM
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this is my philosophy in life as a parent.... it's not a matter of 'if' but a matter of 'when'.

We get anxious when our children don't walk as fast.... well some may delay but it's just a matter of time.

We get anxious when our children don't talk as fast as we want them to... well some will delay but it's jut a matter of time.

We get anxious when our children don't eat as well as we want them to eat... well some may not eat as much or may not show any interest in food.... teenage will come and you will start hiding food coz some people you know will be raiding the fridge at midnight.
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Gathige
#26 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 4:53:39 PM
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When my kids were that age, i also had the same problem until one Doctor told me " Hakuna Ugonjwa unaitwa Kukosa Kukula". Today i am the one who stops them not to overeat.

If its juts not the appetite not to eat, usijisumbue. When hungry, the urge to eat will naturally come.
"Things that matter most must never be at the mercy of things that matter least." Goethe
Impunity
#27 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 5:08:56 PM
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mawinder wrote:
Impunity wrote:
MaichBlack wrote:
My daughter (4.5 yrs) has zero appetite. I've got her both over the counter meds and hospital meds but none seemed to work!

Eating time is one long process. She will take forever to eat and she has to be pushed! Variety doesn't seem to work either. Even the things you would say she loves [The things she normally says "I want to eat this..."], it is still a problem to get her to eat nicely.

And it is not an occasional thing.It's been some time now - nothing to do with illness. When she was below 2 years, she was a very good eater.

What's the solution? Anyone who has had this experience, how did you solve it.


Take her shags and let her play with hardened kids there, by lunch time she eat even the ukoko left.

Sometimes children grow heads when they are over-loved and feel no competition!


My mum did this to me in 70s and my aunt says it worked wonders.
smile

Thanks for that advice.Watoto wakule mapera in the village,fight and do all that pertains to that.The kid will learn to cook ugali,fetch water from the river,fetch firewood etc unlike some 27year old ladies who cant cook ugali and buy ugali from Naivas westlands.


I have never heard mtoto wa maskini akikosa appetite!
Never ever.
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mawinder
#28 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 5:14:51 PM
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Impunity wrote:
mawinder wrote:
Impunity wrote:
MaichBlack wrote:
My daughter (4.5 yrs) has zero appetite. I've got her both over the counter meds and hospital meds but none seemed to work!

Eating time is one long process. She will take forever to eat and she has to be pushed! Variety doesn't seem to work either. Even the things you would say she loves [The things she normally says "I want to eat this..."], it is still a problem to get her to eat nicely.

And it is not an occasional thing.It's been some time now - nothing to do with illness. When she was below 2 years, she was a very good eater.

What's the solution? Anyone who has had this experience, how did you solve it.


Take her shags and let her play with hardened kids there, by lunch time she eat even the ukoko left.

Sometimes children grow heads when they are over-loved and feel no competition!


My mum did this to me in 70s and my aunt says it worked wonders.
smile

Thanks for that advice.Watoto wakule mapera in the village,fight and do all that pertains to that.The kid will learn to cook ugali,fetch water from the river,fetch firewood etc unlike some 27year old ladies who cant cook ugali and buy ugali from Naivas westlands.


I have never heard mtoto wa maskini akikosa appetite!
Never ever.

True.Shida za matajiri.Peculiar problems.
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#29 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 5:23:46 PM
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@MaichBlack, your daughter is perfectly alright.

How much does she weigh the last time you checked?
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danas10
#30 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 5:31:51 PM
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Relax. Why?

A. 10 years or so from today you will be in Wazua asking "My daughter cannot stop eating. What to do? smile
B. 5 years after the 10 years she will start watching her weight because she will be at that stage where she must look "hot"
C. 7 years after the 10 years preceding the 5 years she will be going to the gym like crazy so she can fit in that wedding gown
D. And 10 years after that, she wont care how she looks and you will be sitting on a stool playing with your grand kids and wondering how your daughter grew so fast.

So, relax.

ps...the above is from observation. I am however not the subject smile
Impunity
#31 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 5:33:55 PM
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danas10 wrote:
Relax. Why?

A. 10 years or so from today you will be in Wazua asking "My daughter cannot stop eating. What to do? smile
B. 5 years after the 10 years she will start watching her weight because she will be at that stage where she must look "hot"
C. 7 years after the 10 years preceding the 5 years she will be going to the gym like crazy so she can fit in that wedding gown
D. And 10 years after that, she wont care how she looks and you will be sitting on a stool playing with your grand kids and wondering how your daughter grew so fast.

So, relax.

ps...the above is from observation. I am however not the subject smile


You talk like a parent!

Not talking Not talking
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danas10
#32 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 5:38:11 PM
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Impunity wrote:
danas10 wrote:
Relax. Why?

A. 10 years or so from today you will be in Wazua asking "My daughter cannot stop eating. What to do? smile
B. 5 years after the 10 years she will start watching her weight because she will be at that stage where she must look "hot"
C. 7 years after the 10 years preceding the 5 years she will be going to the gym like crazy so she can fit in that wedding gown
D. And 10 years after that, she wont care how she looks and you will be sitting on a stool playing with your grand kids and wondering how your daughter grew so fast.

So, relax.

ps...the above is from observation. I am however not the subject smile


You talk like a parent!

Not talking Not talking


I wish I could get the right words to respond to you, NKT!!!!!!
Mukiri
#33 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 6:06:47 PM
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I'm GLAD your daughter is not eating!!! I hope she's vomiting too! The first thing I picked out from your post was 'Hospital meds, Over the counter meds' God knows what else you are poisoning your daughter with. GMOs? Processed food? Cerelac etc, Sodas and juice? Cereals? Grains? Gluten? Pasteurized/homogenized milk?

Boss, no offense meant but you are killing your childSad

I've looked at the responses here, unfortunately didn't see one that sought to interpret what 'lack of appetite' means? Think of yourself, when do you lose appetite? When do animals lose appetite? Answer that, and hopefully it will change you and your family's life forever.Pray

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mkenyan
#34 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 6:21:35 PM
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Mukiri wrote:
I'm GLAD your daughter is not eating!!! I hope she's vomiting too! The first thing I picked out from your post was 'Hospital meds, Over the counter meds' God knows what else you are poisoning your daughter with. GMOs? Processed food? Cerelac etc, Sodas and juice? Cereals? Grains? Gluten? Pasteurized/homogenized milk?

Boss, no offense meant but you are killing your childSad

I've looked at the responses here, unfortunately didn't see one that sought to interpret what 'lack of appetite' means? Think of yourself, when do you lose appetite? When do animals lose appetite? Answer that, and hopefully it will change you and your family's life forever.Pray

could you be next offering some gadgets to help him out?
Impunity
#35 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 7:33:59 PM
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danas10 wrote:
Impunity wrote:
danas10 wrote:
Relax. Why?

A. 10 years or so from today you will be in Wazua asking "My daughter cannot stop eating. What to do? smile
B. 5 years after the 10 years she will start watching her weight because she will be at that stage where she must look "hot"
C. 7 years after the 10 years preceding the 5 years she will be going to the gym like crazy so she can fit in that wedding gown
D. And 10 years after that, she wont care how she looks and you will be sitting on a stool playing with your grand kids and wondering how your daughter grew so fast.

So, relax.

ps...the above is from observation. I am however not the subject smile


You talk like a parent!

Not talking Not talking


I wish I could get the right words to respond to you, NKT!!!!!!


Pray
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masukuma
#36 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 7:40:50 PM
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Gathige wrote:
When my kids were that age, i also had the same problem until one Doctor told me " Hakuna Ugonjwa unaitwa Kukosa Kukula". Today i am the one who stops them not to overeat.

If its juts not the appetite not to eat, usijisumbue. When hungry, the urge to eat will naturally come.

All Mushrooms are edible! Some Mushroom are only edible ONCE!
washiku
#37 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 8:45:38 PM
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kysse
#38 Posted : Tuesday, May 20, 2014 8:48:05 PM
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Kusadikika wrote:
Never let a child think she is doing you a favour by eating. The sooner she realises that she eats for her own good the better both of you will be.


plus sleeping,studying,obedience,etc etc.
This is the smartest thing I have heard today.
I loved malcolm's mum.smile


Mukiri
#39 Posted : Wednesday, May 21, 2014 11:18:46 PM
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Mukiri wrote:
I'm GLAD your daughter is not eating!!! I hope she's vomiting too! The first thing I picked out from your post was 'Hospital meds, Over the counter meds' God knows what else you are poisoning your daughter with. GMOs? Processed food? Cerelac etc, Sodas and juice? Cereals? Grains? Gluten? Pasteurized/homogenized milk?

Boss, no offense meant but you are killing your childSad

I've looked at the responses here, unfortunately didn't see one that sought to interpret what 'lack of appetite' means? Think of yourself, when do you lose appetite? When do animals lose appetite? Answer that, and hopefully it will change you and your family's life forever.Pray

I hope my words resonated with you as intended. In kind.

We lose appetite when we are sick. Loss of appetite is not a bad thing. Sickness is not a bad thing. Both are ways that your body, is trying to communicate something to you. A wise person would 'listen'.

When an animal in the bush is injured or falls sick, it hibernates. Lets the body focus its energies on healing. Loss of appetite is a way of the body telling you 'Chief, let me sort out your health first, we'll eat later' But what do uninformed people do, stuff themselves when sick, making things even worse.

If my assumption is right about your daughter, she's clogged up. She has alot of waste (poop) inside her. Cleanse her. Patia yeye Castor oil(to enhance elimination) and green juice(for its cleansing properties) peke yake for a week. Breakfast, lunch and supper. As little or as much as she wants. The carrot juice in the green juice, 'sweetens' it.

Use a good juicer. Masticating juicers (single gear juicers), and triturating Juicers (twin gear juicers). Or best get a manual juicer and exercise your family into good health.

Thank me later.

Proverbs 19:21
nakujua
#40 Posted : Wednesday, May 21, 2014 11:47:32 PM
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kysse wrote:
Kusadikika wrote:
Never let a child think she is doing you a favour by eating. The sooner she realises that she eats for her own good the better both of you will be.


plus sleeping,studying,obedience,etc etc.
This is the smartest thing I have heard today.
I loved malcolm's mum.smile



I would say a kid is not your competitor, you set the rules and they follow - no need playing mind games with kids.

whether they think they are doing yo a favor or not, make sure you set minimum standards, hata food - they need to eat something otherwise you will end up with a kid who is too weak even to fight small infections
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