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seriously need a man.
wa P
#31 Posted : Friday, November 20, 2009 3:59:00 PM
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@simonkabz,

LOL!! Its truth 'well' told. Try substituting rich with poor and see how tasteless it becomes.

But honestly,those 2 gals have sent SOS. One is in business,the other is a top doggess at KRA. No kidding.

Healthy eating = nutritious urine. Nyama choma anytime!
Jus Blazin
#32 Posted : Friday, November 20, 2009 5:52:00 PM
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@wa P,tell them to look no further. I am in my late 20s,single,learned,ambitious (who isnt when the lady in question is rich and has sent an SOS). But seriously,how long do such relationships last? @tetra,I believe what you need is friendship that will grow into love. Start looking around your circle of friends. otherwise if you get a hook up from sk,dating sites,your expectations may never be met. my two Zim dollars

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience,but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy
Luck is when Preparation meets Opportunity. ~ Lucius Annaeus Seneca
Coolbull
#33 Posted : Friday, November 20, 2009 8:55:00 PM
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Posts: 604
You're not alone but to get and keep this man you need to use the best skills in doing so.
I appreciate the advice given here but without going in circles - PLEASE Seek the Will and Hand of God in your search.

After breaking up with a chic of three years,actually being dumped, I went out to test my worth and it was really exciting until i realized the emptiness.

To cut a really long story short I'd suggest you start with God and the rest will fall in place and you will be guaranteed peace.

'Seek ye first the Kingdom of God,and all these things you want will be given unto you' - I know singlehood can be very empty and lonely but so is a marriage without God involved.

If most married people would be honest with you,they'd tell you without God that institution is like a Nazi concentration camp.

Evry journey starts somewhere- start with God - seek God and again i repeat the rest will be given unto you. Then you can follow some of the advices given here.

In Him i have found peace and no loneliness because i know My good wife will come from the Lord. First trust God and He will lead you to that man.

Be Blessed.


Cool Bull
mturi
#34 Posted : Friday, November 20, 2009 10:44:00 PM
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Joined: 10/29/2009
Posts: 25
@ Tetra
Sorry for the loss of a fianc&eacute;. I understand the pain that goes with such an event as I have a friend who lost a newly wed husband. Am glad that you have taken time to heal before making the decision to start again.
However,I don&rsquo;t think long term relationship is something you need to put to public for tender. The way I understand love (I may be wrong) is that it should either be on first sight or it develops from a mutual relationship/friendship. If you want love that grows naturally,I wouldn&rsquo;t think a public site like this would be the best starting point. There may be examples of similar situations that have worked before but each of us have our own way or unique circumstances.
I don&rsquo;t think love is something you can transfer freely from one person to the other in search of the &lsquo;perfect&rsquo; match. It is a careful decision especially if you are looking for a long-term relationship. You are only 28 and you are looking for someone to live with for the next possible 50+ years (assuming that you will die at approx 80) and therefore this is not a decision to take lightly- and this has to start from the inception (and conception) of the decision.
mchuzi
#35 Posted : Saturday, November 21, 2009 4:05:00 AM
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@tetra,

I don't know what to say but having lived abroad for some time,i will tell you that you are still very young (by western standards). I understand that Kenyan society imposes certain values and expectations when you reach a certain age..not discounting the fact that there are a lot of young girls vying for the same needs as you. I know this from experience (not me personally but some of my relatives) . I know some girls who attend their friends' kids' birthday parties always feel miserable. This places tremendous pressure to find a soulmate/hubby.

All i can say is have faith in God. Network in your social circles and probably extend your reach outside Kenya ! You will be surprised. I know a lot of Kenyan chicks happily married to Ghanain guys ! Think outside the box. I know it's hard. West african guys have a serious crush on our kenyan sisters....i don't know why ?

It is so disheartening when gals in their late 20's or early 30's are resigning to fate (becoming a mpango wa kando ). I know fellas will lynch me for this but i say no to mpango wa kando...unless things are really bad.

Singependa kuchanganywa kama roiko mchuzi mix my favourite spice !

It takes two to tango.........
mchuuzi
#36 Posted : Saturday, November 21, 2009 5:50:00 AM
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@tetra

Pray about it and ask God to protect you and send the right person your way.A word of caution though as you receive emails from prospects be very careful there are evil pple out there.


jnn
rock
#37 Posted : Saturday, November 21, 2009 9:16:00 AM
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Hmmmmmhhh...@tetra - Very Interesting! I happen to know a few very eligible bachelors (26-38) so if legit,I can matchmake.

@wa P - same applies.

Things may come to those who wait,but only what’s left behind by those that hustle.







Phaoro
#38 Posted : Saturday, November 21, 2009 1:13:00 PM
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Title sounds desperate. You probably have good intentions but the title might easily attract knuckleheads. Bold move,good luck.

Marriages are made in heaven. But so are thunder and lightning.
Kamaa
#39 Posted : Saturday, November 21, 2009 7:13:00 PM
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Location: Nairobi - Kenya
@ tetra

frankly if you need someone urgently try mocospace...

@ djinn

12 pack for married men....lol!

When you run so fast to get somewhere,you miss the fun of getting there... Life is not a race,so take it slowly....
When you hear what I say, you will not understand. When you see what I do, you will not comprehend
Wendz
#40 Posted : Monday, November 23, 2009 5:56:00 AM
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Joined: 6/19/2008
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LOL!!! We started by one lady looking for a man.... seems we are finishing with more men looking for 2nd,3rd,4th wives and matchmakers.... I love the way things mutate here.....

Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.

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