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Rank: Elder Joined: 4/30/2008 Posts: 6,029
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Vallerrie wrote:Full disclosure, yep its me (duh) and yes he's a colleague.
@Impunity, I'm trying to get the man to like me, not rape me asi? Why would I show him the fundamendoz if he hasn't asked for 'em? Wewe unanimislead.
@AlphDoti - Thanks, solid advise. You mean you didnt succeed to get the Nanyuki soldiers to eat you http://wazua.co.ke/forum.aspx?g=posts&t=23709
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,331 Location: Masada
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Vallerrie wrote:Full disclosure, yep its me (duh) and yes he's a colleague.
@Impunity, I'm trying to get the man to like me, not rape me asi? Why would I show him the fundamendoz if he hasn't asked for 'em? Wewe unanimislead.
@AlphDoti - Thanks, solid advise. Having him the sneak preview of fundamendoz is a sure killer. Hizo zingine ni story tu. If you approach an African man directly like that he will think you are a whore or desperado! Onyesha yeye hiyo kitu, kidogo tu. Portfolio: Sold
You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 9/23/2009 Posts: 8,083 Location: Enk are Nyirobi
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Vallerrie wrote:Based on the 'Telling her NO' thread, is it safe to assume that all guys prefer to do the chasing rather than be chased? What is a girl to do if she really really likes a guy? Just be coy and play the waiting game? Asking for a friend. No, really. This could potentially come back to bite me soooo....  Cook for him. A full stomach is a catalyst for greater things... Life is short. Live passionately.
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Rank: Member Joined: 9/29/2010 Posts: 679 Location: nairobi
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Vallerrie wrote:Full disclosure, yep its me (duh) and yes he's a colleague.
@Impunity, I'm trying to get the man to like me, not rape me asi? Why would I show him the fundamendoz if he hasn't asked for 'em? Wewe unanimislead.
@AlphDoti - Thanks, solid advise. doesn't hurt to be nice to him ask him out(lunch would be easy since you work together) and one day tell him you like him, has happened to me twice, one was an Asian chic both times I thought it was a prank but not so...
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/18/2011 Posts: 12,069 Location: Kianjokoma
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just don't push him too much. Pole pole tu. A hint here, a hint there. I like the lunch option by kizee. The problem withh most ladies is that they're very impatient with relationship issues. The tricky thing for men is how to tell you NO when you haven't said what you want. You could just be a friendly girl! So if he acts disintrested, accept and move on. Or if he mentions his girlfriend. Else ask him live live. Be careful about men who think of landing when a woman shows interest!
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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Vallerrie wrote:Based on the 'Telling her NO' thread, is it safe to assume that all guys prefer to do the chasing rather than be chased? What is a girl to do if she really really likes a guy? Just be coy and play the waiting game? Asking for a friend. No, really. This could potentially come back to bite me soooo.... @vallerrie, did someone tell you NO?Try MCing, he will say yes to everything If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Chief Joined: 5/9/2007 Posts: 13,095
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Vallerrie wrote:Based on the 'Telling her NO' thread, is it safe to assume that all guys prefer to do the chasing rather than be chased? What is a girl to do if she really really likes a guy? Just be coy and play the waiting game? Asking for a friend. No, really. This could potentially come back to bite me soooo.... Maybe that colleague of yours is a Wazuan too...Maybe, just maybe, he has already asked for advise on how to tell you NO. Just maybe 
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/2/2011 Posts: 4,824 Location: -1.2107, 36.8831
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kizee1 wrote:Vallerrie wrote:Full disclosure, yep its me (duh) and yes he's a colleague.
@Impunity, I'm trying to get the man to like me, not rape me asi? Why would I show him the fundamendoz if he hasn't asked for 'em? Wewe unanimislead.
@AlphDoti - Thanks, solid advise. doesn't hurt to be nice to him ask him out(lunch would be easy since you work together) and one day tell him you like him, has happened to me twice, one was an Asian chic both times I thought it was a prank but not so... Asian as in Hindu, Chinese, Japanese or Thailand. An Indian,  , the rest,  @Vallerrie, in the midst of a kawaida office chat, look at him in the eyes and ask, " By the way, are you married?" or " By the way, Do you have kids?" That will be enough. He most likely will want to know why you asked, and every other thing will fall in place. And i hope you are not one of the attachees in our office. Receive with simplicity everything that happens to you.” ― Rashi
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/1/2012 Posts: 290
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Thanks guys for your input. Aside from Impunity, everyone else thinks I should say something, thing is I cant, I'm just too shy. Hints may work for me,something like this.... 
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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I wonder why I never get such opportunities. Vallerrie, if he turns you down, just know that some wazuan gents here will never say no. If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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