Selah,Listen to SK members and learn.As the head of the house,you are not suppose to negotiate with the House girl. Inaonekana mmezoeana sana.What bothers you so much about her leaving? What is it in her you can't find in another housegirl? If i were your wife i would kick her out in your presence. Surely you can't defend such a house girl.

NOTING that:


Your spouse should be in charge of your domestic engineer,not you.
Where a small tot is present,most folks are willing to overlook a housegirl's weaknesses (eg she could be a dwarf in keeping the house clean) so long as the househelp takes excellent care of the tot.
You are asking if 2 give her a 2nd chance yet you have cautioned her severally,meaning you have in actual fact given her 3rd,4th,5th and umpteenth chances!!
You will unnecessarily invite suspicion (real or imagined) frm your spouse on your motives should you continue trying to retain her
You chai/juice/fombe/uji bill will increase exponentially as the house (estate?)/help entertains her visitors at your cost - heck,maybe even on ur marital bed...

while QUESTIONING: What exactly is your motive for opting to retain her?

OBSERVING that: The protection of the well-being of your tot is your supreme concern

it is hereby RESOLVED:


ditch this Juliet like yesterday.
keep off mboches (physically and their matters!),and u will live happily ever after
I WILL KEEP OF MBOCHES should be your New Year's resolution in 42 days time.



..there's nothing,absolutely nothing really,that I can't do if I put my mind to it.

I cant believe yu r asking this man.......

The chief value of money lies in the fact that one lives in a world in which it is overestimated.

@selah.....I dont know the name of the house help in my house and I dont wish to.....I dont know anything about her,absolutely....the only time I ever discussed her with my wife was when I heard someone coughing vigorously in the house for two days and wanted to know who it was...I requested the wife to take her to hospital immediately.....no other time and I pray there be no other time.....leave ur wife to deal with those people and you will be fine all the time

If you have money that you expect to start using in five years,it now belongs in stocks.

allow me to do a mutahi ngunyi and propose a far fetched idea tht the said househelp is a relative i.e sister,cousin,niece etc...and hence the reason for you to knw that she was influenced by a neighbour(since you brought her from shagz and she dint knw this behaviors-highly unlikey)
so ur compassion for her is as a relative. However she does not care for ur tot hence the conclusion is th same. This time you take her back to where you got her with immediate effect.

IF YOU EVER LOSE,MAKE SURE YOU NEVER LOSE THE LESSON!!