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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/7/2012 Posts: 11,937
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Pick up the challange  In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 3/27/2009 Posts: 1,437
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Wa_ithaka wrote:What kind of "man" says no to a lady? Atakama sura haileti, you eat once just to make her feel nice. That's how these complicated situations arise. You 'eat' once thinking it's a passing cloud and she sticks like glue to you. You then come to Wazua for advice and or therapy ...Telling her no.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,333 Location: Masada
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Lolest! wrote:dunkang wrote:otienosmall wrote:At times I wonder what is happening with our women/girls they don’t take jokes anymore! You flirt with a girl for a moment and you are cooked. It then becomes so difficult to ditch her especially if you are that kind of person who may not want to hurt. It’s amazing how a girl including college students will clearly know you are married and yet firmly stick to you at the slightest provocation I tell you. What's up with ladies nowaday? You joke once, kumbe she has been waiting for that for years!!!! @Lolest, what is the problem with having a lady friend? I am strongly inclined to think that you are over-thinking about "friendship". Can't you just have a lady friend without thinking about sex?  no buana. Sijataja six!! I dont mind friendship but hizo texts za I'm missing you mara dreamt with you...aiii. Kwanza you only know each other for 2 weeks and women are very impatient. Mpaka delays n texting cause a fight Sometimes safcon delays delivering the text and they are like kwani mbona unanilenga?  Portfolio: Sold
You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,333 Location: Masada
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Rank: Elder Joined: 8/4/2008 Posts: 2,849 Location: Rupi
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Wooooiii! Lord, thank you!
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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kysse wrote:Lolest! wrote:The giggles..to the long quiet stares...to subtle hints...to a flurry of more pressing texts and guilt trips when i dont answer. How do you tell her 'wacha' when it's all hints? Money Whisperer wrote:hata mimi nataka kujua. manze the guilt trips are my achilles heels i find myself responding  Hii hata mimi nataka kujua, @Lolest and @Money Whisperer, please describe.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/7/2012 Posts: 11,937
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CLK wrote:kysse wrote:Lolest! wrote:The giggles..to the long quiet stares...to subtle hints...to a flurry of more pressing texts and guilt trips when i dont answer. How do you tell her 'wacha' when it's all hints? Money Whisperer wrote:hata mimi nataka kujua. manze the guilt trips are my achilles heels i find myself responding Hii hata mimi nataka kujua, @Lolest and @Money Whisperer, please describe. make goggle your friend yawa! In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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Angelica _ann wrote:CLK wrote:kysse wrote:Lolest! wrote:The giggles..to the long quiet stares...to subtle hints...to a flurry of more pressing texts and guilt trips when i dont answer. How do you tell her 'wacha' when it's all hints? Money Whisperer wrote:hata mimi nataka kujua. manze the guilt trips are my achilles heels i find myself responding Hii hata mimi nataka kujua, @Lolest and @Money Whisperer, please describe. make goggle your friend yawa! My google doesnt seem to work, care to help a sister, i however want a male version.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/18/2011 Posts: 12,069 Location: Kianjokoma
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Bigchick wrote:If you dont tell her in black and white she will never know whats in your mind.So tell her.
Meanwhile had you shown an iota of interest before?NO, Just an honest compliment of her hairstyle Or better still have you fished her?NO
If not then it should not be a difficult task but do it like a gentleman.
Tell her you appreciate her "liking" you and her feelings towards you but you are married or engaged and dont want to waste her time . aSANTA I think a polite lie will do. She knows I'm not married but I could just mention in passing I'm seriously dating some other woman!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/18/2011 Posts: 12,069 Location: Kianjokoma
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CLK wrote:kysse wrote:Lolest! wrote:The giggles..to the long quiet stares...to subtle hints...to a flurry of more pressing texts and guilt trips when i dont answer. How do you tell her 'wacha' when it's all hints? Money Whisperer wrote:hata mimi nataka kujua. manze the guilt trips are my achilles heels i find myself responding Hii hata mimi nataka kujua, @Lolest and @Money Whisperer, please describe. It's manipulation by making the other party feel guilty for not doing your bidding. e.g text, guy doesn't reply then you start asking him if he doesn't like your company
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