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marine
#1 Posted : Thursday, October 08, 2009 8:24:00 AM
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Skerians. I need your advice. I am approaching 30 years and have been dating this lady for the last 7 and half years and was planning to formally wed in December next year. The problem is up and until sometimes in May I have noticed a change in her attitude and general commitment to the relationship. Communication has become erratic with the excuse of work and distance – I am in Nairobi while she works in Eldoret. I am becoming frustrated and on the verge of calling the relationship off. I have been very committed and never cheated on her one single time.



Watu,please advise

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Impunity
#2 Posted : Thursday, October 08, 2009 8:27:00 AM
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She has no more feeling left for you...did u get the mijinjo for the last 7 years from her?If not then thats is the reason;if u av been mijinjod then she's had enough from you.QUIT...

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Fundaah
#3 Posted : Thursday, October 08, 2009 8:29:00 AM
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when in doubt ...DON'T COMMIT YOURSELF ....marriage is a permanent commitment ....it can be hell or heaven for you....The choice is yours...better a broken relationship than a broken marriage....

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Magigi
#4 Posted : Thursday, October 08, 2009 8:32:00 AM
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...Palipo na moshi moto haukosi...
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Chaka
#5 Posted : Thursday, October 08, 2009 8:33:00 AM
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@Marine,

Why has it taken you 7 years?If she was say studying abroad I would understand.May be she has met a rich farmer huko Eldi..
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Apple Bees
#6 Posted : Thursday, October 08, 2009 8:46:00 AM
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@marine.

pole bro.

but what is her number? e-mail?


Where else would it be?
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Mpenzi
#7 Posted : Thursday, October 08, 2009 8:48:00 AM
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The fact that you have been dating for 7yrs without getting married is itself a sign that there is a problem somewhere. Why havent you married all these years?
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Impunity
#8 Posted : Thursday, October 08, 2009 8:50:00 AM
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@!mpenzi,...probably they were still young.

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Kamaa
#9 Posted : Thursday, October 08, 2009 9:09:00 AM
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i hope you had a plan b what most people would call mpango wa kando...

if not pole sana bro...

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marine
#10 Posted : Thursday, October 08, 2009 9:19:00 AM
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@Impunity

She is 4 years my junior and we met while she had just cleared high while i was in campus. As for Mijinjo,that has never been a problem. i suppose i surpassed expectations

@All,

Are you saying there is more than meets the here? I have been having that feeling but always hated rushing to conclusion.

I know people are unique but any one else been through this. Please share your experience


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