I have decided to change the subject cos i felt its was sounding unethical.

One,you have done well by having a choice of three.
Two,I hope and really hope that the one you want to retain is the one you feel you can trust your life with and that you are compatible. In this I mean,you did not look at immaterial factors. You have known her background. Most dates in the net start with imposters.
Three,you have now decided to abandon the two whom your heart tells you they cannot make it to be your lifetime partners. Not emotions. Without being sensational. Your heart and spirit has spoken.
Now,Four,approach the two ladies facing them one by one. Tell them the honest part of your thoughts and showing that you know it will hurt them but there is no other way out. Appreciate them for the time they have given you,tell them you are indeed their friend and nothing will change that. You must be clear,emphatic and conclusive. Dont leave room for doubts like you will return there one day.
You have already shown them you are a morally upright person by not eating the grapes. They will respect you. Don't cut down the communication but change its contents. You still have a lot to share in this world.
Finally,be committed to the new 'catch'....always remember Jimmy Gathu's sound statement...'WAZEE TUWACHANE NA MIPANGO YA KANDO....EPUKA UKIMWI..'

I also turn the way he does.

It doesn't hurt to know more than you have

….'ve been in online dating for nearly three months,and i'have met three wonderful career women,all in their early 30's just like i am. All three are single just like me with no children. I talk to each one of them on phone daily,we also chat online. I have put a lot of effort and time to all three ladies.



And you are in your early thirties,been this tight with three adult ladies without asking for Mijinjo? Dude you need to go for a gender test … you are either a woman or gay!



You need to realize that,contrary to popular belief,an adult woman cannot love you until you have demonstrated your 'romping in the hay skills' and made her 'scream her Mama’s name'.



Sharpen your skills in that department; choose the one who can’t keep away from you for more than two days at a time after erecting the beacon … otherwise you will remain forever a ‘friend’ and a loser,well into your 40’s.

@kingfisher

lol!!!

Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.

keep them all...

coz there are just buddies without any intimate r/ships...

and begin searching another honourable lady for you to marry...

When you run so fast to get somewhere,you miss the fun of getting there... Life is not a race,so take it slowly....

Boss. You want to make a lifetime decision based on 3 dates?

Kweli we should kick your A**. Get to know them alittle more better. Youll kick out the one most suitable as maybe they need time to open up.


Want to be a millionaire.... plant a million cabbages and sell them at a bob...