I have been a SK member since 2007 but decided to register a new screen name for this topic.

I've been in online dating for nearly three months,and i'have met three wonderful career women,all in their early 30's just like i am. All three are single just like me with no children. I talk to each one of them on phone daily,we also chat online. I have put a lot of effort and time to all three ladies.

I have gone for three dates with each one of them and i like each one of them a lot. They like me too. I have not made a commitment to either of them,i have also not tasted mijinjo from either of them.

My problem is i need to cut off friendship with two of them without hurting their feelings. This is proving to be very difficult. One may ask why i decided to date three mature women at the same time.....my reason is that i needed to diversify my portfolio just in case i got dumped by either of them after the 1st date.

My question is.......HOW DO I SAY GOODBYE to two of them without hurting their feelings?

(This is a true story,not meant to generate traffic to sk)

a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do.

stop being a coward and just spit out what you feel- like a real man! those two ladies will obviously feel hurt kidogo but will forever respect you always for being brave,sincere and honest. it will be easier because you have not slept with them. lakini face them openly one by one. don't be stupid and text messages saying it's over.


OnLy deaD FiSh gO WiTh tHe floW....!

I find nothing wrong with your intention of saying goodbye to the two.I would say you are just being a gentleman.The worst thing is to keep someone in suspense for a long time,actually its a sin.One thing you need to know is that most ladies once they have given their heart,saul & spirit to a gentleman like you,they do it 100% and they are likely to be hurt when things go haywire.

So far 3months is not a very long period and this is the right time for you to bid the 2 bye bye,fine they will be hurt but get healed after sometimes.And us xtians could put it like i feel that its not the will of God we continue any further .Whenever you bigin a r/ship,try not to end up creating enemies,make sure your ex blesses you in your next move.

.........................My 2cts



Jesus Said,'If you abide in Me,and My Words abide in you,you will ask what you desire,and it shsll be done for you' (Jhn 15:7)

In this case haraka haraka itakuwa na baraka. There must be one who obviously stands out so chose her and tell the other two the truth and cut communication kabisa.

Do it today before you go to the next level.

I wish you the best and take care not to end up with marks on your face coz definately someone will be hurt badly.

IF YOU CAN'T GET SOMETHING TO DO WITH YOUR PAPERS,THINK OF WHAT YOU CAN DO WITH YOUR HANDS AND BRAINS

uwararue kwanza,you may settle with one only to find that she is a semenya




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