Wazuans, things are thick! Been married for 4.5 years with two kids, 4yr and 9mo old. I have for sometime suspected my beta now worse half of mischief. She is a bit secretive with her phone. But i have been patient. I had the opportunity of landing on her first, but we didn't move in together until when she got paged.

To the real meat now, on my house laptop i installed a key logger because she loves being online. Sasa jana night siku 40 fikad(She is away for a visit) I decided to review reports of last month on the key logger randomly and what i found shocked me. Am really regretting and not sure our marriage will survive this. She was landed on by her X(she had convinced me i was the only one who had ever had the opportunity) plus procured an abortion while in campo from the same X, think just before she came to me. Am angry, feel betrayed, used, useless, too mad,blackmailed, till i shed tears. This was jana 10pm. Haven't been able to sleep, my eyes are red

I really love my kids(thinking DNA now), n my love for her was growing(married because i had scored) My issues are
a. How do i confront her? i fear ill kill someone when she returns
b. How do i trust her?
c. They have been chatting lately with the X who is married. Reviewed the chats also, but were just general stories. The X is a church guy, and with actions of pastors lately...wacha tu.
c. What are my options, i cant get over this....

The devil hates marriages. His mission simple Kill, Steal, Destroy! Its not hard to deduce what master some people serve... for a tree is known by its fruit.

Take time out. Pray. Talk to a mentor. Talk to your parents. Talk to someone older and wiser. Take your kids somewhere, parents etc while you think this through.

Whatever you do, DON'T ACT IN HASTE. Act when you are sure its a decision you'll be able to live with for the rest of your life.

They were ready to kill, until Jesus said 'Let ye without sin cast the first stone...'

Adultery occurred BEFORE marriage. Do your DNA

Usidaganywe na shetani, prince of lies.

have not seen anything about her currently cheating on you. you're overreacting. so she had sex before she met you. so she procured an abortion before she met you. what should matter is how she's behaved since you were together not how she was before. if what women do with their life before they are ready to be married should determine whether they're married or not then all of my female college classmates would never have been married. so you're overreacting and a bit naive.

mkenyan, because she lied abt her past, because she still maintains contact with her X, kwanza its her who looked for the X on FB. n for like 4 days consecutively they were chatting really hard. She said she didnt have her number, discoverd she does but its not saved under any name. They also chat on whatapp