@ jacob zuma,
Pole bwana but you are not wrong,its sad but true,its not persistent unfaithfullness. The reality is around 90% of married couples have cheated at some point in their married life for various reasons. Maybe things werent going well nyumbani or mamaa was pregnant etc.

We have those who have had one off advantures,those who have had short affairs and eventualy they stuck to their marriage as not let the affair ruin it. The bigger problem is with those who make it a habbit as in constant cheaters. Those people who are promiscous despite being married,they not only cheat frequetly with a stable partner but numerous partners or wherever they get an opportunity. These people are a big problem! i'm not saying you can have a one off thing or a short affair. There are some decisions in life when you make,rules hav already been made for them. Marriage is one of them,once you decide to get married the rules are there and so are the vows to be honoured,
So if you start philandeering and you are caught be ready to face the consequencies! Its not only about breaking up and emotional pain for the cheated spouse but also the risk of HIV and AIDS is one which cant be ignored. Theres no room for cheaters in marriage but reality is a different kettle of fish. Statistics reveal that most people infected with HIV are married or have stable partners,thats food for thought. Acheni muhanyo! play safe if you must that is,its either safe way or no way if you know what i mean

Life is like an onion; you peel off one layer at a time and sometimes you weep. Carl Sandburg

Me thinks that many people find it Macho to claim that they have been unfaithful to their spouses...the same way teenagers find it cool to claim that they have had sex.

So,stop listening to what people claim...and especially be careful about what you hear on maina Kageni's programmes - they are stage managed to elicit excitement. Observe people's behaviour and make your own conclusion.

But; most important; don't fall into the trap of 'building your houses like the Joneses'.

@Adept; I would also like to see the independent research that supports the 90% claim...especially,I would want to know how the researcher verified the findings of unfaithfulness....respondents saying they have affairs is not good enough!!

Regarding Jimmy Gathu; I remember Leonard Mambo saying that his 'Je,Huu ni Ungwana' programme puts him under a lot of pressure...he has to really watch his behaviour all the time...not just in public.

I think it would have been better to get Maina Kageni to do the 'Mpango wa kando' adverts....just offer him enough money.....

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