@Zuma
To tell you honestly,you are not any different from majority of the guys i have interacted with in my looooong life. Some guys will look then shift their eyes quickly before its gets uncomfortable,some dudes - and these are maaaany,stare and stare and stare until you have to distract them with a question or movement to make them stop.... yet some,even after the distraction,they briefly look into your eyes and take their eyes back and you are left wonder.... '' ngai fafa kwani my eyes have moved to my chest without knowing??!!! now,this leaves you one embarrassed lady especially if you have a low-neck outfit... However,some ladies will wear a top that will make the brothers not resist looking - and may be thats the intention... but even then,just admire... not stare and drool.....
Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.