It all depends what your intentions were as you ate the hanye. If you intended to marry her,pole sana. But if you are worried cos there is no more guava coming your way,I would advice you to move on and look for another guava (but kumbuka ukimwi unaua,so play safe)

Engine

how do you know that some of these responses are not from ladies?

On forbidden fruits,they say you reap what you saw. If you want something good,be patient and look for someone great that will be for keeps,not someone who just wants to have fun. Like all these people are saying,that might not have been the best catch. My advice,talk to the lady as to what you want. If you want a future,tell her nicely and make a decision. If she is not the right one,abstain,look for the good qualities,if interested start a rel,get married and enjoy the fruit,it will not be forbidden anymore.

'The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes.” William James

This might be ana one of maina kageni's classic topics........ Today in the morning a mama called and said she has 8 boyfies each has his own duties and responsibilities,,,one for lungulaing,ana one for chums,ana one for lovy davvy stuff,ana one for taking her out,e.t.c...

she might be kind enough not to use donald trumph words.... U R FIRED..... ana Rungu has just been hired..... move on man....

Its just me
whatever choice you make in life make sure that you can live with it.

first ur servicing a woman 10 yrs your senior. Then u have a steady girlfriend living in another city. Now u are askin to date an sk lady...? SHAME on u matako nyeusi!

You have a right to your opinion.
Allow me mine!