Recently I was in a discussion with friends one claimed that the fiancee was a virgin and all guys objected some out of jealous but some just coz they did not believe virgins still exist well I did not object ciz personally I married a virgin but I could not even finish saying it coz things became soo hot Guys in which boat are u any sisters out there to tangaza msimamo and be honest.

Dignityis everything keep it intact

@pastorM

your signature tells it all...

When you run so fast to get somewhere,you miss the fun of getting there... Life is not a race,so take it slowly....

@ Oteve,
I am a 28 year old virgin dude (those childhood flicks notwithstanding). Planning to 'vuka' most likely before hitting 30,lest another movie be made based on my story :).
(Pastor M,I hear your sigh.)

I don't congregate (religiouswise) & I'd prefer to marry when I'm in my mid 30's. It all started way back during my younger ages as an uninformed choice that has dragged on well.

I love the death-like look of disbelief that most of my buddies get when I proclaim my status. It totally beats logic: Grown up in Mombasa,been through campo,with a sizeable number of female buddies, an extrovert,a couple of buddies who won't let skirts breeze by unacknowledged etc.

Let the Accolades and Shindwes now fly in in equal measure.
To you folks....

I came,I saw and was overcharged.

Someone once said 'virginity aint dignity just lack of opportunity',so guys it really depends on how you look at it,i know there are ladies who are virgins out there either cause they havent had the opportunity to let someone between their legs or........ But the problem i think guys have is to take it as gospel truth when a chick tells them they are virgins. Most guys will just think the chick is trying to elevate herself to another level etc but yeah could be,but how do you prove that she's not? There's only one way though,Do you have audacity to tell her to allow you under her knickers? As for me i think some could be telling the truth that they are virgins and some are not telling the truth,but virgins do exist. Its no big deal anyway it depends on how you look at the glass it could be half full or half empty. Someone who loves a good game in bed with lots of experience wouldnt fancy a virgin or a novice but for someone who are amateurs themselves maybe they would fancy a virgin to get to show their tiny prowess

Life is like an onion; you peel off one layer at a time and sometimes you weep. Carl Sandburg