hi guys am a 34 year old guy and now ready for marriage i have few girl friends aged 23,24,27,28 am confused I kinda have stronger feelings for the younger ones.....what is the best age diff........if a married the 23 would it be a proble cos she is the most prefered now ?

You mean you haue been able to maintain the 4 (four) up to the marriable level? There's a problem my bro but you could marry the quadruple according to islam laws. A likely impossibility is always preferable to an unconvincing posibility.

NINJA 1/ SOBER, Yes,you can marry all of them in the islamic fashion.If we assume you are christian,you can marry one the christian way,then others under african customary law.it works.Remember former Budalangi MP Chris Wanjala?? He said an african man should have several wives.Jacob Zuma,SA president has four,too.Myself? I have two,one Kenyan,the other american !!And I'm still dating others. So,come join our club!! Ali Baba

thanks alot pple...okay the truth of the matter is that i fear commitment...i ddnt grow up in a very good family...i dread marrying someone who will force me to a divorce situation....year 10 to 11 years diif is just too much.....if there is a lady out there who was married while young....and the hubby was like 10 years older please give me a word of advice.....do you still feel this guy......from a gals point of view can she be really in love with a 10 years older guy ? ....ama ni chapaa na security she is after