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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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Kysse send me your number and forget boring lonely nights/evenings and weekends. You will forever have a shiny face with a smile everytime you wake up in the morning and look forward to my call and to see me If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/25/2013 Posts: 402
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Swenani wrote:Kysse send me your number and forget boring lonely nights/evenings and weekends.
You will forever have a shiny face with a smile everytime you wake up in the morning and look forward to my call and to see me @Swenani, I see you do not waste time mboss. You saw a damsel in distress and swung into action. I wonder how many people were thinking the same as you?
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Rank: Member Joined: 12/2/2013 Posts: 387
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Swenani wrote:Kysse send me your number and forget boring lonely nights/evenings and weekends.
You will forever have a shiny face with a smile everytime you wake up in the morning and look forward to my call and to see me  @Kysse, problem solved? Illmatic
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 12/21/2011 Posts: 1,010
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lovenuffs wrote:quicksand wrote:kysse wrote:quicksand wrote:kysse wrote:Another weakness with guys (this I noticed even with my own bro and some work colleagues).
You give them detailed infor in a paragraph and they will respond ONLY to the last sentence or question.Yet the last sentence may not be as important as the first. In most cases it isn't.
Does it mean that HE minds register and remember Only the last sentence received. Why aren't you able to grasp a whole paragraph?
Wapi serikali.
Depends on how long the paragraph is. Quick, concise and direct is how most dudes like it. We try but it ends up in a paragraph even after editing a million times.I can't explain how. For instance, you ask a lady'tell me how the event went'.The answer though in paragraph will be direct ,ok at least, if not very. If you answer the last bit only then you haven't even began. This irks me the most cz majority miss the fundamentals of the conversation.  What is important to women in a conversation is not necessarily important to men. It is tuned out automatically, doesnt even register. Take shopping as an analogy. Most guys will be in and out of the supermarket in fifteen minutes flat. It boggles us endlessly why women can spend hours in there. ..why do you ask men about the curtains you want to install in the house (they don't really care), why insist on Tuzo milk and not Daima (milk is the same here, Europe, Russia etc etc), why do you hijack the husbands car when you have run yours to the ground by not maintaining it, why does the reverse never ever happen, why your relatives stay for months on end in the house but when ours do for 3 days grumbling noises start...if you kosana with your girl, you want your man not to hang out with your girl's jamaa as well... We men don't understand these things but we say its isokei. ...for the sake of peace and not having blue balls  I concur with u, and @kysse, one weakness with women, is that they want, when she tells u something (especially if it is abt their family/friend) you develop some extra-ordinary interest. very true....
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/20/2012 Posts: 888
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@Kysse....does the boring behaviour extend to when the guy wishes to engage the landing gear? ama saa hizo anakuwa na maneno mingi??
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/21/2013 Posts: 427
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Lolest! wrote:why would a talkative woman want a talkative man? A guy will call you just to fulfill his duty of 'having thought about you'. If you were married to him, at least he could ask about the kids...or how much milk the cow gave or whether the family's shop sales for the day are enough to pay the new county licences. Now, if you are single, unataka akwambie nini and you want to be called 3 times a day? I totally agree. If you are past the initial dating stage and you now know each other very well, what business is there to be discussed in 3 calls a day? During the initial dating stages it is agreeable to talk on the phone as many times since both parties are eager to know each other more.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/23/2008 Posts: 3,017
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Swenani wrote:Kysse send me your number and forget boring lonely nights/evenings and weekends.
You will forever have a shiny face with a smile everytime you wake up in the morning and look forward to my call and to see me Gud stuff @Swenani. @Kysse, there's the man you are looking for. "The purpose of bureaucracy is to compensate for incompetence and lack of discipline." James Collins
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/17/2008 Posts: 23,365 Location: Nairobi
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timuka wrote:Lolest! wrote:why would a talkative woman want a talkative man? A guy will call you just to fulfill his duty of 'having thought about you'. If you were married to him, at least he could ask about the kids...or how much milk the cow gave or whether the family's shop sales for the day are enough to pay the new county licences. Now, if you are single, unataka akwambie nini and you want to be called 3 times a day? I totally agree. If you are past the initial dating stage and you now know each other very well, what business is there to be discussed in 3 calls a day? During the initial dating stages it is agreeable to talk on the phone as many times since both parties are eager to know each other more. Totally agree!!!! ..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/21/2013 Posts: 2,841 Location: Here
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kysse wrote:Another weakness with guys (this I noticed even with my own bro and some work colleagues).
You give them detailed infor in a paragraph and they will respond ONLY to the last sentence or question.Yet the last sentence may not be as important as the first. In most cases it isn't.
Does it mean that HE minds register and remember Only the last sentence received. Why aren't you able to grasp a whole paragraph?
Wapi serikali. Let me see if I get this: yaani a guy misses the ceremony and only shows up for the closing remarks? Life is like playing a violin solo in public and learning the instrument as one goes on.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/21/2013 Posts: 2,841 Location: Here
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quicksand wrote:kysse wrote:quicksand wrote:kysse wrote:Another weakness with guys (this I noticed even with my own bro and some work colleagues).
You give them detailed infor in a paragraph and they will respond ONLY to the last sentence or question.Yet the last sentence may not be as important as the first. In most cases it isn't.
Does it mean that HE minds register and remember Only the last sentence received. Why aren't you able to grasp a whole paragraph?
Wapi serikali.
Depends on how long the paragraph is. Quick, concise and direct is how most dudes like it. We try but it ends up in a paragraph even after editing a million times.I can't explain how. For instance, you ask a lady'tell me how the event went'.The answer though in paragraph will be direct ,ok at least, if not very. If you answer the last bit only then you haven't even began. This irks me the most cz majority miss the fundamentals of the conversation. What is important to women in a conversation is not necessarily important to men. It is tuned out automatically, doesnt even register. Take shopping as an analogy. Most guys will be in and out of the supermarket in fifteen minutes flat. It boggles us endlessly why women can spend hours in there. ..why do you ask men about the curtains you want to install in the house (they don't really care), why insist on Tuzo milk and not Daima (milk is the same here, Europe, Russia etc etc), why do you hijack the husbands car when you have run yours to the ground by not maintaining it, why does the reverse never ever happen, why your relatives stay for months on end in the house but when ours do for 3 days grumbling noises start...if you kosana with your girl, you want your man not to hang out with your girl's jamaa as well... We men don't understand these things but we say its isokei. ...for the sake of peace and not having blue balls mapumbu samawati . Yenyewe, the objectives of communication or a conversation for men are quite different when compared to women's. The latter will talk mainly to 'bond' whereas the former will mainly do it to pass on some crucial info. It's a curious thing I noticed even with my female cousins. Say we're walking around town and I happen to feel hungry. I'll simply tell her 'tuingie hapa tule'. On the other hand, kama ni yeye, she'll be like 'haki naskia njaa' and I'm somehow expected to figure out she wants to eat now and perhaps not wait for another hour or so tufike nyumbani. And if I go for the latter option, then I'm labelled uncaring, etc etc It's a curious life this is. Men desire direct communication that clearly states what you want, not expecting us to infer. Life is like playing a violin solo in public and learning the instrument as one goes on.
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