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Rank: Veteran Joined: 7/5/2010 Posts: 2,061 Location: Nairobi
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kysse wrote:Another weakness with guys (this I noticed even with my own bro and some work colleagues).
You give them detailed infor in a paragraph and they will respond ONLY to the last sentence or question.Yet the last sentence may not be as important as the first. In most cases it isn't.
Does it mean that HE minds register and remember Only the last sentence received. Why aren't you able to grasp a whole paragraph?
Wapi serikali.
Depends on how long the paragraph is. Quick, concise and direct is how most dudes like it.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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quicksand wrote:kysse wrote:Another weakness with guys (this I noticed even with my own bro and some work colleagues).
You give them detailed infor in a paragraph and they will respond ONLY to the last sentence or question.Yet the last sentence may not be as important as the first. In most cases it isn't.
Does it mean that HE minds register and remember Only the last sentence received. Why aren't you able to grasp a whole paragraph?
Wapi serikali.
Depends on how long the paragraph is. Quick, concise and direct is how most dudes like it. We try but it ends up in a paragraph even after editing a million times.I can't explain how. For instance, you ask a lady'tell me how the event went'.The answer though in paragraph will be direct ,ok at least, if not very. If you answer the last bit only then you haven't even began. This irks me the most cz majority miss the fundamentals of the conversation. 
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 7/5/2010 Posts: 2,061 Location: Nairobi
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kysse wrote:quicksand wrote:kysse wrote:Another weakness with guys (this I noticed even with my own bro and some work colleagues).
You give them detailed infor in a paragraph and they will respond ONLY to the last sentence or question.Yet the last sentence may not be as important as the first. In most cases it isn't.
Does it mean that HE minds register and remember Only the last sentence received. Why aren't you able to grasp a whole paragraph?
Wapi serikali.
Depends on how long the paragraph is. Quick, concise and direct is how most dudes like it. We try but it ends up in a paragraph even after editing a million times.I can't explain how. For instance, you ask a lady'tell me how the event went'.The answer though in paragraph will be direct ,ok at least, if not very. If you answer the last bit only then you haven't even began. This irks me the most cz majority miss the fundamentals of the conversation. What is important to women in a conversation is not necessarily important to men. It is tuned out automatically, doesnt even register. Take shopping as an analogy. Most guys will be in and out of the supermarket in fifteen minutes flat. It boggles us endlessly why women can spend hours in there. ..why do you ask men about the curtains you want to install in the house (they don't really care), why insist on Tuzo milk and not Daima (milk is the same here, Europe, Russia etc etc), why do you hijack the husbands car when you have run yours to the ground by not maintaining it, why does the reverse never ever happen, why your relatives stay for months on end in the house but when ours do for 3 days grumbling noises start...if you kosana with your girl, you want your man not to hang out with your girl's jamaa as well... We men don't understand these things but we say its isokei. ...for the sake of peace and not having blue balls 
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/23/2008 Posts: 3,966
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kysse wrote:Man: My gal are you fine?
Woman: I am super fine,How about you?
Man:I am very fine just moving on with life, thanks dear, have a nice time, God bless u all.
Saaaasa, why initiate a talk if you got absolutely nothing to say? Next time you will find yourself talking to the wind since you expect to be led in a conversation.
Always call out someone with an agenda in mind and lead the talk, don't just call and go blank.
That was the agenda. To tell you amepata mwingine. Luck is when Preparation meets Opportunity. ~ Lucius Annaeus Seneca
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/9/2009 Posts: 2,003
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kysse wrote:Another weakness with guys (this I noticed even with my own bro and some work colleagues).
You give them detailed infor in a paragraph and they will respond ONLY to the last sentence or question.Yet the last sentence may not be as important as the first. In most cases it isn't.
Does it mean that HE minds register and remember Only the last sentence received. Why aren't you able to grasp a whole paragraph?
Wapi serikali.
Aye, nîwoka mûno! Leta sentenci moja moja in manageable pieces!
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Rank: New-farer Joined: 7/9/2012 Posts: 63
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quicksand wrote:kysse wrote:quicksand wrote:kysse wrote:Another weakness with guys (this I noticed even with my own bro and some work colleagues).
You give them detailed infor in a paragraph and they will respond ONLY to the last sentence or question.Yet the last sentence may not be as important as the first. In most cases it isn't.
Does it mean that HE minds register and remember Only the last sentence received. Why aren't you able to grasp a whole paragraph?
Wapi serikali.
Depends on how long the paragraph is. Quick, concise and direct is how most dudes like it. We try but it ends up in a paragraph even after editing a million times.I can't explain how. For instance, you ask a lady'tell me how the event went'.The answer though in paragraph will be direct ,ok at least, if not very. If you answer the last bit only then you haven't even began. This irks me the most cz majority miss the fundamentals of the conversation. What is important to women in a conversation is not necessarily important to men. It is tuned out automatically, doesnt even register. Take shopping as an analogy. Most guys will be in and out of the supermarket in fifteen minutes flat. It boggles us endlessly why women can spend hours in there. ..why do you ask men about the curtains you want to install in the house (they don't really care), why insist on Tuzo milk and not Daima (milk is the same here, Europe, Russia etc etc), why do you hijack the husbands car when you have run yours to the ground by not maintaining it, why does the reverse never ever happen, why your relatives stay for months on end in the house but when ours do for 3 days grumbling noises start...if you kosana with your girl, you want your man not to hang out with your girl's jamaa as well... We men don't understand these things but we say its isokei. ...for the sake of peace and not having blue balls I concur with u, and @kysse, one weakness with women, is that they want, when she tells u something (especially if it is abt their family/friend) you develop some extra-ordinary interest. If a free society cannot help the many who are poor, it cannot save the few who are rich.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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Jus Blazin wrote:kysse wrote:Man: My gal are you fine?
Woman: I am super fine,How about you?
Man:I am very fine just moving on with life, thanks dear, have a nice time, God bless u all.
Saaaasa, why initiate a talk if you got absolutely nothing to say? Next time you will find yourself talking to the wind since you expect to be led in a conversation.
Always call out someone with an agenda in mind and lead the talk, don't just call and go blank.
That was the agenda. To tell you amepata mwingine. its not just abt relationships but general talk. problem is there in red. We wish to know how you are moving on with life but before we even ask, umefunga sentensi and bid us goodnite. It's incomplete..
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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radio wrote:kysse wrote:Another weakness with guys (this I noticed even with my own bro and some work colleagues).
You give them detailed infor in a paragraph and they will respond ONLY to the last sentence or question.Yet the last sentence may not be as important as the first. In most cases it isn't.
Does it mean that HE minds register and remember Only the last sentence received. Why aren't you able to grasp a whole paragraph?
Wapi serikali.
Aye, nîwoka mûno! Leta sentenci moja moja in manageable pieces! you should be able to decipher.A lot cannot be put in one sentence.It's impossible infact it's better not to begin than throw an incomplete sentence which may beg for more questions. You see,some of us want to answer while taking into account probable questions that may arise out of our answers. We live no room for questions and that's why the words are many. something like that.... As for you HES,woi,it's one sentence which leaves one with a thousand questions. Meaning you are not direct.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/18/2011 Posts: 12,069 Location: Kianjokoma
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why would a talkative woman want a talkative man? A guy will call you just to fulfill his duty of 'having thought about you'. If you were married to him, at least he could ask about the kids...or how much milk the cow gave or whether the family's shop sales for the day are enough to pay the new county licences. Now, if you are single, unataka akwambie nini and you want to be called 3 times a day?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/19/2010 Posts: 3,505 Location: Uganda
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kysse stop being so hard on hemales.they are born brain damaged on one side. how is the weather huko kwenu? na jam je? na hii mwezi haiishi? jo pesa hakuna njaa mingi punda amecheka
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